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[inthemudhole]

I never thought I'd bring myself down to do this, but here I am.
Posting in relationships.
Asking for advice.

Story::

Okay. Well. My boyfriend and I have been going together for about 2 3/4 months. For the past couple of weeks, he's been acting differently, and I don't know how to explain how he's acting differently, but he just is.

He's also been hanging out with a few friends of ours a lot lately.. and they're girls. He's always on the phone with them, and I haven't talked to him on the phone since early July.

A few people have recently said something like this to me.. "I don't see why you two are still going out. You don't talk often, and when you do, it's about nothing, really.. and you never see each other."

I don't exactly know what to do.
Yeah, I guess I should talk to him about it, but I'm afraid I might mess it up.. I might be misunderstanding him, but maybe not.

Uhm. So, what do you guys think?

[racegirl24A]

well i read here a lot and never post, but i went through close to the same situation as yours so i figured id give out some advice. it was a little after me and my ex bf's 3 month, and things were just different. he spent more time talking to his other friends (which were girls) than me. he still told me he loved me and all that stuff, so i tried not to worry about it. pretty big mistake on my part. a few days later he dumped me and told me he liked 2 other girls more than me, which were the ones he had been spending more time with and talking to more than me. so my best advice would be just to break it off. besides, youre 13 right? i was 12 at the time, just about to turn 13. Im 14 now and ive decided just to wait a few years before i start dating. got plenty of time to find someone and i find it kinda silly to have a bf at such a young age. wow, sorry if that was kinda long.