bestfriend gets a boyfriend, and im the 3rd wheel Options

[iheartsimba]

I've known this girl for about 2 years and we've been really good firends. Last year she wnet through boyfriend after boyfriend after boyfriend. they were never really serious relationships. but she would say she was "in love" and all almost every sigle time. and get this huge obsession. they would only last about 2 weeks to a month each. then a few days later shed move on to the next boy. but then people started htinking of her as a slut. and she didnt wanna be known as that. so she told me to make sure she didnt get a boyfriend at all the whole summer.

so then she goes to this camp for a week. behind my back she was going out with this guy even like a few days before she left to camp and she hardly knew him when he had asked her out.

so then they go on the beach because it was like beach camp and they were all alone. she comes back a week later, still trying to hide the fact she had a bf....like she didnt want me to know cuz she knew i was supposed to be mad at her or something. so finally about a week after she gets back from camp, word gets out that "lily and jay are oging out" im liek wtf why didnt i know shes like my bff.

So now shes pretty much claiming love once again. And for some reason I just can’t believe her this time. Because she would always claim it before.

But now she is seriously spending ALL her time with him. Everytime I call, the line is busy because she is talking to him. Whenever im hanging out with them I feel like the 3rd wheel. Sometimes she even asks me to leave so they can have alone time, like they don’t have enough already.

It’s like shes known him for about a month know, and I’ve been like best friends with her for over 2 years, and she just ditches me.

It's like everytime shes depressed or soemthing IM there for her. Everytime. SHe just calls up, crying and ill talk to her. But now she just leave sme liek that.

SHe doesn't even treat me right anymore. like its an honor to be her firend or osmething. Her bf calls her beautiful everyday, so i think its gotten to her. She getting so stuck up now.

This is part of what she wrote on her xanga:

jays such an amazing guy...he actually understands me, he cares about me, plus he's really sweet and nice. and that honking thing he does, it makes me smile, everytime he does it.

you know, he's practically my bestfriend at the moment...he lets me rant on and on about pointless things, and in the end, still has something to say. plus he is so much fun to hang out with...i just love being with him. my 2 good friends...1 of them, is out of town, and if i tryed calling her and telling her about my life, she probably wouldn't even want to hear about it, or wouldn't even pay attention to what i'm saying and make me feel like i'm talking to a wall. my other good friend...he probably doesn't even know i think of him as a good friend, and if i tryed talking about my life to him, he'd probably just sit there and not pay attention to half the things i say, or if he did, he'd say something totally mean, and make me feel like a complete loser for even telling him...but whatever, they have their ups and downs. at times they're great to talk to, but other times, i'd just want to shoot them.

ugh.

[LoST SouL]

ur still he rbest friend mayb u kud be best friends wit her b/f too like dun worry be happy for her if ur relly her friend you will mayb she n her b/f r relly in love now.. tlk to her but remeba ur not her only friend dont be selfish hey mayb u kud ask her b/f to hook you up wit 1 of his friend and you guys could double date... n like us shoud tlk to her bout wat she rote but u[if tat was bout u im slow] n xplain to her that u r there to lisnten but uv also gotta understand tat although you r best friends you 2 do have different intrest.. i say tlk to her n tlk things out