bestfriend gets a boyfriend, and im the 3rd wheel Options

[iheartsimba]

I've known this girl for about 2 years and we've been really good firends. Last year she wnet through boyfriend after boyfriend after boyfriend. they were never really serious relationships. but she would say she was "in love" and all almost every sigle time. and get this huge obsession. they would only last about 2 weeks to a month each. then a few days later shed move on to the next boy. but then people started htinking of her as a slut. and she didnt wanna be known as that. so she told me to make sure she didnt get a boyfriend at all the whole summer.

so then she goes to this camp for a week. behind my back she was going out with this guy even like a few days before she left to camp and she hardly knew him when he had asked her out.

so then they go on the beach because it was like beach camp and they were all alone. she comes back a week later, still trying to hide the fact she had a bf....like she didnt want me to know cuz she knew i was supposed to be mad at her or something. so finally about a week after she gets back from camp, word gets out that "lily and jay are oging out" im liek wtf why didnt i know shes like my bff.

So now shes pretty much claiming love once again. And for some reason I just can’t believe her this time. Because she would always claim it before.

But now she is seriously spending ALL her time with him. Everytime I call, the line is busy because she is talking to him. Whenever im hanging out with them I feel like the 3rd wheel. Sometimes she even asks me to leave so they can have alone time, like they don’t have enough already.

It’s like shes known him for about a month know, and I’ve been like best friends with her for over 2 years, and she just ditches me.

It's like everytime shes depressed or soemthing IM there for her. Everytime. SHe just calls up, crying and ill talk to her. But now she just leave sme liek that.

SHe doesn't even treat me right anymore. like its an honor to be her firend or osmething. Her bf calls her beautiful everyday, so i think its gotten to her. She getting so stuck up now.

This is part of what she wrote on her xanga:

jays such an amazing guy...he actually understands me, he cares about me, plus he's really sweet and nice. and that honking thing he does, it makes me smile, everytime he does it.

you know, he's practically my bestfriend at the moment...he lets me rant on and on about pointless things, and in the end, still has something to say. plus he is so much fun to hang out with...i just love being with him. my 2 good friends...1 of them, is out of town, and if i tryed calling her and telling her about my life, she probably wouldn't even want to hear about it, or wouldn't even pay attention to what i'm saying and make me feel like i'm talking to a wall. my other good friend...he probably doesn't even know i think of him as a good friend, and if i tryed talking about my life to him, he'd probably just sit there and not pay attention to half the things i say, or if he did, he'd say something totally mean, and make me feel like a complete loser for even telling him...but whatever, they have their ups and downs. at times they're great to talk to, but other times, i'd just want to shoot them.

ugh.

[fatbebepig]

well hahah im pretty much in da same situation as YOU except she dunt go frum guys to da next but even doe she hab a b/f she still cares bout meh and make her b/f take her to visit meh when i need sumone or when im SAD ............da things ish let her hab her tyme wif her boyfriend ya knoe . dat da thing bout girls..when dey hab a b/f and it all fresh dey get over obsesss bout da guy and when u talk to dem dat all dey cud talk bout "he dis he dat omg i love him blah blah blah" but hey atleast she think bout u're da first one she ran to to brag bout dat show she first on ur mind. (as in friendship term) wut she wrote in her xanga ish pretty mess up but if u look at it in another angle then u wud rethink it over......becuz she pretty much feel lyke how u feel in a wai...lyke she thinks dat u're pretty much ignorin her and doesnt even gib her attention!! she feels dat you dunt even bother to listen when she needs sumone to talk too even if it sumttin not important but still .....maybe dat wai she turn to her b/f and he dere to listen to her nonsense...BESTFriend are dere for you NOT just when u're hurt and heart broken BUT DEY"RE dere for you when dey're happi and excited over stupid things...DEY"RE dere fo you to brag bout da new guys you just met or how ur dates went or how u feel bout ur b/f or when u're mad at ur b/f and needs sumone to complaint too or when u're PMSIN or when u cry over NUTTIN and dey just on da other line just to listen to ur cryin......and also gib u space and leave u alone when u're hab ur b/f next to you...........and she'll be dere when u want her tooo.