College...A new beginning?..., Relationshipz Options

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I'm goin ta be a freshman in college and I dunt know wut to do about my gf...I'm stuck on da decision about either stayin wit her...or runnin it single...The big problem is iz dat she really likes me buh shez a few yearz younger than me...

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The real question here is " Do you like her?" Even though you may be happy with her...realize that college is a place where you meet people and have new relationships. So...find out how deeply in love you are with her...(sounds like you are holding onto this relationship because SHE likes you, and not so much versa )
However, everyone deserves the truth, so just tell her how you feel.
The decision is really up to you. If you feel like you will meet new people who you might possiblity start a relationship with...then break off with her; spare her the heartache. But if you feel you totally are in love with her..keep her.

But keep in mind: Do what feels right for you, you definitely don't want to stay in a relationship just because you don't want to hurt her <-- because in reality you are hurting her.

If I were you, I would still date her. However, DURING college, if you do meet someone new, then break up with her. She'll understand the situation better. She'll understand that you are at a NEW place with NEW people and she just have to respect it. HOWEVER, if you break up with her now...maybe she'll think you are only dating her til college..kinda like a before-college-gf, and she might be really pissed at you.

whoa...sorry..I didn't realize I wrote so much but hopes it help