Ever had ur heart broken?, i have............ Options

[wayne]

Heart broken........ a feeling that hurts more than death...... I hate it, and I hope i never expirince it again. My girlfreind cheated on me (we are still together) and I loved her so much. But when I found out she did, my heart felt like it was going to stop. I cant explain why or how it did, but all I know is I felt scared, sad, and mad all at the same time. I was shakey, furious, sad, and i felt like i just wanted to leave to somewhere and never talk to anyone again. When she finally came to me and appologized, I felt like telling her it was over, but then she begged and cried for me not to leave her, so I couldnt. I guess you can call me weak hearted, but I just couldnt do it to her. Now i am still with her, and she says she neer wants us to be apart ever. I still love her very much. But I dont think I could love her as much as I wanted to b4 she broke my heart. Not now at least....

[Just_Dream]

so messed up. She doesn't realize what a great person you are. Even though she came back to you, it was F*cked up. I would die if my bf broke up with me and/or did that. Because, I gave him so much love and because I've done so much for him.
It's hard because you've lost the one thing that means the most: trust. And when she cheated on you, you lost all trust in her. And that's probably WHY you dont' love her as much. I mean, how can you still love her as much? You can't, you love her less. That's why. She could say that she made a mistake, but she should have known better. If she didn't like you when she cheated on you, she shouldn't have cheated on you, she should've just broken up with you or something.

Even though you're back together with her, she's messed up for ever hurting you. That was wrong. I think that she should be glad that you still love her and you stayed with her. Because even so, you DESERVE so much better. Cheating will NOT fix anything. *sigh* When will people learn that?