male/femal abuse Options

[Fashionista225]

Do you believe in the traditional view that a guy should never hit a woman? If you do believe that does it still count if she's twice your size?

[Spirited Away]

... I won't even comment on this..

But it sounds very much like you're saying that women shouldn't hit men because the men might retaliate and hurt them.. that still doesn't sound like very just reasoning
So what you're saying is that if a woman keeps hitting a guy, then the guy has justification to hit her back?

Very much so. In fact, I consider guys who do not stand up for themselves against evil women are no good. Believe it or not, I've seen men who are abused and manipulated by their wives, and it's just not right for either to be manipulating and abusing each other. Men should have control over how their spouse treats them and VICE VERSA.

I've seen a woman shouting at her husband in public while their children were watching nearby and crying. What I've heard was that the woman is the head of the household in this family because she the bread maker while her husband takes care of the children because he doesn't speak English and just came to America. What she was screaming at him about bothered the heck out of me ("you worthless this, you fukcing that", keep in mind that the husband is new to the US). The least I would've have done in his situation was drag that btch indoors where our children can't see, and slap her at least once to get her attention and then talk to her. Now, if it was the man who faulted, then I my reasoning wouldn't apply.

I DO NOT support abuse of any kind. Slapping and smacking are not meant to be abusive unless used too much and in the wrong state of mind. However, sometimes, it's just right to smack someone who deserves it. Maybe it's easier for me to say this because I'm a girl who would beat up other girls....