wow...this is kind of akward...but, i wanna know |
wow...this is kind of akward...but, i wanna know |
Jul 27 2004, 09:42 PM
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my biological father left when i was born...so...yea...that happens to a lot of people i know...
but today...after i went to see anchorman *awesome*, i came home...and my moms like...your father called...i kind of went speechless he said that he wanted to talk to me when i`m ready....but i dont know when i will be ready and when i am ready...what am i gonna say... this is all kind of hittin me fast...so...any advice would be nice ((psst. . .i wasnt sure which forum this should be in...so correct me if im wrong please)) |
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Aug 11 2004, 03:24 AM
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Definatley, definatley, definatley talk to him. If you don't, you might wonder years down the road what you missed out on. I've heard stories of people in your situation that are a lot older and are able to form a good relationship with their biological father or mother after just meeting them (and these are grown people!)...and remember to go into this with an open mind. He may have changed and he may not have. Good luck with everything!
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x rOck mai sOcksz wow...this is kind of akward...but Jul 27 2004, 09:42 PM
Luster Soldier Do you have any feelings towards him at all? Say i... Jul 27 2004, 09:44 PM
sweetxsimplicity Wow..
Srry, my mind is sort of blank right now, I... Jul 27 2004, 09:59 PM
JessJR1022 do you know why he left???........ that should fac... Jul 27 2004, 10:03 PM
Chaos13 ............................................. (pls... Jul 27 2004, 10:03 PM
MyVermilionPlague QUOTE(Luster Soldier @ Jul 27 2004, 9:44 PM)D... Jul 27 2004, 10:05 PM
tootsie_kiddo sry... my head is kinda white rite now. i'll d... Jul 27 2004, 10:10 PM
HuGs_fOr_yOu Juss tell him wat u think/feel..don't be scare... Jul 27 2004, 10:18 PM
iheartsimba What are you feeling?
Ar eyou angry with him?
Or e... Jul 27 2004, 10:21 PM
hair products usually you want to let cookies sit out for a good... Jul 27 2004, 11:03 PM
IIO__oII talk to him
tell him about your feelings.
maybe he... Jul 27 2004, 11:25 PM
conster well he is ur father afteralll... jus talk to him ... Jul 27 2004, 11:27 PM
x rOck mai sOcksz thanks...all of you!
ya`ve been a great h... Jul 27 2004, 11:49 PM
sammi rules you i have absolutely no idea.
i guess just be you... Jul 28 2004, 12:24 AM
JlIaTMK wow.... that must be a hard thing to go through...... Jul 28 2004, 12:27 AM
wayne i just dont know. it has to be hard, and i sure en... Jul 28 2004, 12:29 AM
laur3nw wow..i would be speechless too..just talk to him a... Jul 28 2004, 01:16 AM
HoneyGurl Just say what comes from da heart.. Don't spea... Jul 28 2004, 01:47 AM
CEP Ask him, " What's up? " and how... Jul 28 2004, 02:04 AM
f00LisH_h3aRt63 idk what i'd say or feel about that. dont thin... Jul 28 2004, 02:07 AM
x0xSilverNColdx0x i'd ask him why he left, and tell him how you ... Jul 28 2004, 02:09 AM
imafreakinazn QUOTEJuss tell him wat u think/feel..don't be ... Jul 28 2004, 10:30 AM
mai_z if you DO want to see him, then do it... if you ta... Jul 28 2004, 11:18 AM
xsweetdreams12x Uhh...
I'm sorry, but this is what I think.... Jul 28 2004, 02:25 PM
chica777708 everyone has already said what I was gunna say, ju... Jul 28 2004, 03:34 PM
sunshiNe_sweeTi_ ok well i would b mad if this happened to me but h... Aug 9 2004, 05:59 PM
SH0RTAYE speechless ? let him do the talking . you D0 want ... Aug 10 2004, 03:01 AM
helllla jankyyyy tell him how you feel....ask questions....be compl... Aug 11 2004, 01:11 AM
xxslithr0atxx ermm... sry i dont think this will effect u lol bu... Aug 11 2004, 02:58 AM
elmogurly wow...that's more than anything that happens t... Aug 11 2004, 05:17 AM
huney8o8 in a way ur very lucky! sum ppl are trying to ... Aug 17 2004, 02:04 PM
literemix24 i dink you should hear your father out..lols XP ... Aug 19 2004, 09:22 AM
scandalous_chic Do you want to meet him? If you need to, you shoul... Aug 19 2004, 11:27 AM
xnastyninjagrlx I think if your dad is making the effort to reconn... Aug 19 2004, 12:46 PM
pinkrocsmysocs well ok this is what i think u should do i think t... Aug 19 2004, 02:30 PM
angel-roh wow it's sure gona be hard for u to talk this ... Aug 19 2004, 02:32 PM
sweetdreamsx3 QUOTE(xnastyninjagrlx @ Aug 19 2004, 12:46 PM... Aug 19 2004, 06:37 PM![]() ![]() |