A tough decision, very tough Options

[sikdragon]

OK I have known these two girls the same amount of time, they both fine as hell. Both get very jealous and are very good friends. They both like me and are sincere. I like them both equally, but for different reasons.
Who do i choose?

Brown Eyes: determined, great dancer, loves music, great sense of style.
Green Eyes: smart, independant, awesome singer, imaginative.

[flip_dorkette]

i probally would have tried to date them both at the same time lol, but if u want some serious advice then date the one them , and if things dont work out, onto the other one. just be nice and friendly with the girl ur not seeing,so when the time comes her door is still open

aww... dont do that...... that happened to me, and it hurt like hell .... i told the 1st boy i ever really cared about that i liked him, and another girl liked him also and told him so on the same day.... he spent a lot of time with both of us, trying to choose... ((he liked me for 2 whole years, but he had more classes with her so hed be able to spend more time with her; cause he had after school activities and was mostly busy)) the whole time i felt like a gold fish at a pet store; just waiting for that boy to choose me... but he didnt.. he chose her.

he was always nice to me; but it felt like he was cheating on her with me.. and i didnt want to be part of that.. it drove me to a point where i couldnt even smile infront of her ((felt guilty you know?)).. so eventually i began to hang around him at a minimal.. then she dumped him cause she was just using him, and he came back to me..... but i said no ((such an asshat to think id go back after what he did)).

in conclusion: dont try one of them and date the other if it doesnt work out;
1) if they really do care, youd hurt them when you do that
and 2) if you go out with one, there might not be a chance to go back for the other if you make a mistake....

just get to know them better some other way.. ask your friends what theyd think.. try asking yourself which of those girls would really care about you.. observe their actions when theyre with other people; maybe theres something about one of them you missed.