friendship, just a bunch of ups and downs Options

[HaN4RaNg]

this friend i have is pretty cool but we have gone through some tough times. i feel like we're not getting anywhere in this friendship.. its like we build up our friendship to the point where i just think i cant live without him, but then we get into a huge argument that just crumbles everything up causing us to start over again. this has happened sooo much and im just getting sick of it. i hate getting into fights with him but when we're not, we're so tight with eachother. i dont know what to do with this guy .

[Darkpekkle]

it seems that you have a very valuable friendship, so don't give up on it so easily! have a nice, long chat with him and talk out the things you argue about the most... and try not to raise your voice or make too many accusations against him, otherwise he'll get mad and won't listen to you. maybe you guys can reach a compromise and avoid topics that would throw you two into a big fight.

friendships are meant to have ups and downs, otherwise you won't learn anything from each other, and quite frankly, the relationship would be boring without the little arguments here and there. we're only human, so differences in opinion are normal.