i can't get over a guy., blah.... >_> Options

[lisaaaaaaa]

ok, so i've liked this guy for 3 years. since 4th grade. and now i'm going to 7th grade, so its gonna be my first year in middle school. i just can't seem to get over him! he's kinda a player....(i know....we're kinda young but relationships started happening around 5th grade) he dates one girl, like 2 months later or 3, depends on how serious the relationship is. (now breaking into a story...) in october, he actually asked me out...and i was soooooo happy. but i mean, it was my first boyfriend so i was really shy and all....and i basically never talked to him. and then came outdoor school, so i always hung out wiff my friends but not him, and i didn't even say hi. so after outdoor school i called him and i asked if it was over...and he said yeah, so it was all my fault and i totallllllly regret it. and now whenever he gets a new g/f i feel sooooooo terrible, and usually he dates one of my friends, so i HAVE to be happy for them....and when my friend got a first kiss from him i was soo devastated T_T and no matter how hard i try to forget about him its just not happening.

[SarahxJoy]

I agree with hugs_for_you. You're being in middle school for your first year will surely bring new guys into your life. But if you want to, confess your feelings for the guy again and see what happens from there. Just take things as they come and take your time while you're at it. If not, then try to not think about him.

Hope this helps.