do i need to chill out? Options

[T00000]

Okaaay so I love my boyfriend so much. And I've been with him for over a year. I've been deeply in love with him for over a year... and last year I moved away from Portland, so our relationship is long distance.

Am I too paranoid for worrying about other girls all the time? I know like everyone at his school (my old school,) so if he cheated on me I'd most likely find out. But still, there's the fact that I'm not there and I really worry, like when he goes and hangs out with his friends who are girls and shit. Like once he went to get ice cream with his friend Lindsay, and she picked him up and drove him and shit and I was really uncomfortable.

I trust him... I just don't trust other girls. And I don't trust the fact that he has a dick, and people who have penises tend to cheat more easily that people who dont. If he ever did cheat on me, I knew he'd regret it... which is why I'm so worried, because some girl might seduce him and he'd make a bad decision...

Do you think I should just chill out? If so, how? It's very hard to do, I've tried before. It's just that the idea of him cheating on me would be the worst thing ever... and even if he did, I probably wouldn't break up with him because I love him so much. I would just be devastated... and depressed, and stuff. He's never actually cheated on me, but he's done this one thing with this girl that I honestly didn't like, and not many would. Mmmm... advice...?

[Darkpekkle]

i think you have a right to be suspicious and to give other girls the evil eye, because some girls you just have to be wary of (especially those flirty, touchy-feely types). But there's also a fine line between being suspicous and being obsessively/overly suspicious. Your bf will definitely get annoyed if you keep bugging him about all the girls he knows and hangs out with. I guess just give him room to chill with who he wants to chilll with, but also keep an eye out for the girls you don't like.