do i need to chill out? Options

[T00000]

Okaaay so I love my boyfriend so much. And I've been with him for over a year. I've been deeply in love with him for over a year... and last year I moved away from Portland, so our relationship is long distance.

Am I too paranoid for worrying about other girls all the time? I know like everyone at his school (my old school,) so if he cheated on me I'd most likely find out. But still, there's the fact that I'm not there and I really worry, like when he goes and hangs out with his friends who are girls and shit. Like once he went to get ice cream with his friend Lindsay, and she picked him up and drove him and shit and I was really uncomfortable.

I trust him... I just don't trust other girls. And I don't trust the fact that he has a dick, and people who have penises tend to cheat more easily that people who dont. If he ever did cheat on me, I knew he'd regret it... which is why I'm so worried, because some girl might seduce him and he'd make a bad decision...

Do you think I should just chill out? If so, how? It's very hard to do, I've tried before. It's just that the idea of him cheating on me would be the worst thing ever... and even if he did, I probably wouldn't break up with him because I love him so much. I would just be devastated... and depressed, and stuff. He's never actually cheated on me, but he's done this one thing with this girl that I honestly didn't like, and not many would. Mmmm... advice...?

[enticing.]

long distance relationships are always hard. me & my boyfriend live 30 minutes away. i feel like i can relate to you because i do trust him but i've heard of the types of girls that go to his school & i just don't trust them. but if your relationship is strong then you'll be fine.