boyfriend or friend advice, i need advice Options

[dreamsweeti82]

Ugh, me and this guy ((jeremy)) have been friends since we were 4. We go to church together..so i see him almost every sunday. About a month and a half ago, we started going out, and I didnt really like the whole 'goin out' thing((even tho we've tried it 3 times before this)), so i broke up with him*that was a week ago..from todae* and now, he aint talking to me. He'll call, but he doesn't say anything. He wont even say hi. He'll just be silent. Then he'll ask me if I have anything to say..and i say no. So he hangs up.

Am i supposed to have something to say? I meen, im not sorry for our breaking up. He's like a brother to me, I cant go around kissin my brother. But i dont want that to ruin our friendship!!! What do i do?

[eboarder2020]

just try to go to him like nothin happened as in ever started going out and stuff.

Ummm I dont think thats a good idea. if the guy is still calling you then its pretty obvious that he still feels something there. The thing that you could do is talk to him about it... You dont have to go back out with him or anything, but you've got to realize that this guys heart is broken and that hes hurt... If i was the guy the last thing I would want is for the girl to think that everything is fine, because it really isnt.

And when the guy calls the reason why the c onversation is quiet and awkward is that this guy might be trying to find some common ground on which to talk on. I bet when you two were going out you guys could talk about anyting, but now that things have changed, he may or may not know how to talk to you. Bottem line is to still be there for him if he needs anything, and continue to support him in any way you can. Hope this helps...