We broke up..., ...yesterday Options

[We could rockkkk]

Justin and I had been going out for 2 years. We had decided to take a break during the period. And after about a week we got back together because we could not stand it without each other. But after we got back together he had changed. He wasn't himselve. He had told me that if I wanted to go back out with him I needed to stop smoking and cutting. I told him that I could agree on the cutting but not with smoking he accepted the fact and we moved on. Then one day he asked me if I had smoked lately and I had told him the truth, yes. He got mad, upset and all that. I told him that it was something I enjoyed doing and if he had a problem with it we should end our relasionship. So he dealed with it. Then he asked again the other day. I told him yes. I realized that it is not worth stoping something you like for someone. Not only was he controlling but he hated the people I hung out with, so he would always try to make plans when I had already planned somethign with someone he did not like. I was sick and tired of being hurt and so were my friends. So I called him last night around 9 o'clock and I tolded him we needed to break up. I told him why and everything. He cried... horrably. I mean horrably. He ask for another chance to change things and I turned him down. I feel horrable counting that I love him, but I fell in love with the person he once was. Not who he is now. He just doesn't understand that. I feel horrable and told him I was truly sorry... but I don't feel like that is enough.. please.. help.

[sheepy]

2 yrs is a long time. maybe he was just concerned about you, cuz lik smoking is bad for you. but den again if u really loved each other u would take each others faults nd all.