i wanna get over this guy, but i don't know how Options

[itz_soyoungy]

i have liked this boy for more than a year.. well we actually went out before also.. nd after we broke up nd we stayed as friends.. later he nad i had a really finght(i dunno wut to put for this word) nd that kinda drifed us apart.. nd i moved nd another year has passed nd he would do anything to make me miserable.. i know i can't talk to him because he is now friends with one of mah best friends the place i once lived.. once my friend imed me and asked if i was still friends with him but i was like no we stopped talking for more than a year.. but the thing is that i can't get over him because i really don't know the reason that it made us apart..

nd the place i moved there is a boy that is exactly like him.. he looks alike nd i compared everything but everything between him nd this boy at school were alike.. he likes me and i like him but if i go out with him im afraid that i would still compare what he did to me before.. i know i should compare people between people but i just can't help it..

how would u get over this guy??can u give me any advice??

[anger_is_my_frie...]

if you're going out with this guy just because he looks like your ex-boyfriend, that's kinda messed up on the new guy. does he know that he reminds you of the ex?? well, you should probly tell him just to clear things up and there must be something that distinguishes him from your ex-boyfriend.
my advice: try dating someone new, cuz you probably don't know what you want because you're still hung up on your last boyfriend. isn't your ex a jerk though for making you miserable?? he's not worth it. look around, meet new guys, the next mr. right is bound to be around somewhere.
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