What do I do??, .. details inside >.< |
 Jul 31 2004, 12:03 PM
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All right, I currently have a boyfriend, but lately I've been talking to one of my guy friends and we both let it slip that we like each other (I had a crush on the other guy before me and my boyfriend started dating), and its to the point where I just want to be with the other guy and not my boyfriend, although I still have just the tinyest bit of feelings for my boyfriend... I want to break up with my boyfriend for that reason and also he is a bit of a dud bf.. like our convos are short on the phone and our AIM convos go for hours with no one saying anything... I just don't know what to do and how to break up with my boyfriend.. because I'm really scared because I've never 'dumped' anyone (I'm normally the one dumped)... I really need help...
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Jul 31 2004, 07:42 PM
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 Linny the dork. Group: Member Posts: 178 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,258 |
well first make sure that you're 110% sure that you don't like your bf anymore, cuz the same thing happened to me and i ended up realizing it was the worst decision i ever made, and if you're sure, then let him down slowly and make sure no one knew that you liked another guy whileyou were with your bf or else there's gonna be alotta drama that you definitely do not want. and for the dumping, tell him that you don't feel "connected" to him anymore(since he's a dud) and get him to agree with you that it isn't working. ps, tell him that you still wanna be his friend or that you still wanna be in his life, so that he won't be mad at you or anything.
 good luck!penguindork <---my xanga =) |
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Blue Lightning What do I do?? Jul 31 2004, 12:03 PM
conster so u made ur decision that u wanna break up, just ... Jul 31 2004, 12:40 PM RiC3xBoy just tell him calmy that u dun think this relation... Jul 31 2004, 07:28 PM mai_z break up with your boyfriend, because when you sta... Jul 31 2004, 09:04 PM SurferGurl2007 the sooner you do it the better, because your only... Jul 31 2004, 10:21 PM MyVermilionPlague Hmm.
Sounds like you have made a decision.
Well, I... Jul 31 2004, 10:55 PM Levy2k6 i say you dump him and give it three to one or two... Jul 31 2004, 11:14 PM betrayedbytheducky lol..damn im in the same situation. except my bf i... Jul 31 2004, 11:14 PM sandra break it up in person and tell him nicely that u w... Aug 1 2004, 01:38 PM straightedge9 i've had something similar happen to me, where... Aug 1 2004, 02:10 PM Blue Lightning Well I broke up with my bf.. who didn't take i... Aug 1 2004, 02:26 PM x hYpErRoSeY x sry he called you an attention whore- ur not one :... Aug 1 2004, 02:53 PM
Blue Lightning QUOTE(x hYpErRoSeY x @ Aug 1 2004, 2:53 PM)sr... Aug 1 2004, 05:12 PM |
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