Ask him out or not??, please give me some advice.... sigh... Options

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*deep breathe* okai, I don't really want to talk about this 'relationship' but I'm kinda in too deep now. warning: story is long. And I'm asking for help cuz I dont know what to do now

Okai, so I have known this guy since 6th grade. But during 6th, 7th, and 8th grade, we were enemies and hated each other so much. However, start of 9th grade, we started to clik and I started to like him. I'm a junior now and I have liked him for 2 years now. During these two years, we hanged out a lot, and I guess he is like the closest friend I have. I never told him I liked him though and he never asked me out ( kinda hoping he'd ask me out, but he didn't). During these two years, there were some times when I dated other people which cause him to be mad and not talk to me the time period I was going out. Many people have also ask us if we were a couple and such. End of sophomore year, his best friend told me that he used to liked me. And this summer, I feel that I am beginning to really love him. His best friend even told me to ask him out. But I don't want to. My reason is: Lately he has been hanging out with one of my best friend (his friend too). I know that she used to like him and that he used to like her too. I just dont know if they still feel the same. Anyways, they have been hanging out a lot. I fear that if I ask him out, he might say No cuz he doesn't like me anymore. Or if I ask him out and he say Yes, I might ruin my friendship with my girl friend, cuz I'm pretty sure she likes him too. I have even asked her who she likes and she kinda hints it over to him that she likes him. And if he says No, it might make out really great friendship awkward. Not dating him would be fine but DUDE it's been 2 years!! and I'm kinda growing impatience because I don't want to have to wait for him you know? I could be missing out on other great guys too. But I really really like him...really bad. I never realize how much I like him until I dated my "ex". I broke up with my "ex" cuz I realize I was trying to forget him but didnt work ( while back) see..he's like the ONE for me! I can't stop thinking about him. Plus I dunno if I should take a chance and ask him out. He once told me he doenst want to date asian ( he's white) so I dunno. advice?

[talentedbabe04]

this exact thing happened to my best friend! just ask your friend if it's ok. she probably won't mind. she could be really happy for you.