friendship, just a bunch of ups and downs Options

[HaN4RaNg]

this friend i have is pretty cool but we have gone through some tough times. i feel like we're not getting anywhere in this friendship.. its like we build up our friendship to the point where i just think i cant live without him, but then we get into a huge argument that just crumbles everything up causing us to start over again. this has happened sooo much and im just getting sick of it. i hate getting into fights with him but when we're not, we're so tight with eachother. i dont know what to do with this guy .

[f00LisH_h3aRt63]

ive been in this situation too. my friend cicely and i are best friends but in the beginning of our friendship, i noticed that we fought a lot with each other. and the same feeling was when we weren't fighting we were close as hell. i got soo tired of it that i made the decision to end the friendship because all it was doing was giving me stress that i just didnt need. i told her that i didnt wanna be friends with her but she didnt accept it. so we had this really really really long talk about why we fight and all that kinda stuff. that talk seemed to help because 5 years later we are still best friends who yes still fight. so my suggestion to you is to just talk to your friend and try and figure out whats going on.

i hope this helps.

jackie