does it annoy you when people assume..., to know what you're talking about? |
 Jul 23 2004, 05:10 PM
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 !shobe!  Group: Member Posts: 664 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,912  |
here's the thing...
recently, one of my school mates signed up for xanga. i used to have a fling with him... now, we're kinda friends.. kinda not.. i don't even understand it... anyway..! he found my account and started reading the things i wrote..... his name appeared a couple of time in some of the entries.. those had to do with how i felt/feel about him and what not.. later, he finds this entry that's about a night i spent with a guy.. there are no names in it; just pronouns. then, he remembers about the time i told him that my family won't be home and i asked if he wanted to come over. his answer was vague and eventually, he didn't come. i didn't make a big deal out of it cuz i my other friend, who was visiting from the philippines, came over. the point is, he thinks i was talking about him and that i was being "f**king delusional"!!! argh...!! i hate people like that!!!! i mean... why the hell is he assuming that i was talking about him!?!! i'm not desperate at all!!!! plus, he doesn't like me anymore and i don't like him anymore.. (but i'm not sure if that's clear since he did this..) now, he's saying that i'm "f**king crazy" and "living in a fantasy world." bullshit!!! then he was like, "you're retarded" and some other crap like that.. i mean.. please!! the world does not revolve around him and it's not like he's the only guy i'm seeing....!! well... yea.. that's enough of my ranting... ...so.... have any of you ever experienced that..? like people assume they know who or what you're talking about, and they think they know you..?? don't you find that rather annoying or aggravating..???? |
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Jul 26 2004, 04:31 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
well i odn't know.
i assume a lot of the time. I confront the person if i'm pretty sure it is conserning me. I think it's best to know about it. I don't go spaz and yell at them if I'm not ENTIRLY sure though. nothing wrong with assuming. But in the way he did it, I suggest just tell him what REALLY happened. |
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aud_chua does it annoy you when people assume... Jul 23 2004, 05:10 PM
airam i like to change names of people in my xanga.
any... Jul 23 2004, 05:18 PM f00LisH_h3aRt63 yea i wrote this entry a while back when my group ... Jul 23 2004, 05:23 PM always_n0vember Yes it sure is annoying when people assume... But ... Jul 23 2004, 05:26 PM babixlilac yea i assumed a lot cus it makes sense.well after ... Jul 23 2004, 05:31 PM aud_chua I can't really ignore his comment cuz he works... Jul 23 2004, 05:34 PM chanleythemanley I assume myself so I can't get to p.o at anyon... Jul 23 2004, 05:40 PM hybrid It's okay. *pat pat* Let's just burn those... Jul 23 2004, 05:51 PM StarryEyedSurprize ah yeah assuming sucks Jul 23 2004, 05:53 PM crazeegirl411 omfg...*totally agrees*
My number ONE HATE is peop... Jul 23 2004, 05:54 PM NatiMarie That's so annoying...they cut me off when I... Jul 23 2004, 06:08 PM aud_chua QUOTE(crazeegirl411 @ Jul 23 2004, 5:54 PM)om... Jul 23 2004, 06:08 PM sheepy YEAH I COULD TOTALLY AGREEE. GOSH . i hate ppl who... Jul 23 2004, 06:25 PM liquidbluac1d my mom assumes things... and she looks at me weir... Jul 23 2004, 06:39 PM sheddingtears Yeah I have experienced that and it IS annoying an... Jul 23 2004, 07:14 PM tyedyefroggy mann that really makes me soo po'ed, especiall... Jul 23 2004, 08:04 PM NYsmiLez yea i really hate ppl like that. they always need ... Jul 23 2004, 08:14 PM aud_chua sometimes you wonder.. how do those kinds of peopl... Jul 23 2004, 08:40 PM TheSuGaRAdDiCt yeah, that really annoys me... gah, then they on... Jul 24 2004, 01:21 AM aud_chua if you think about it... why do they even assume t... Jul 24 2004, 04:04 PM dani41790 yea that happens to me and i hate it Jul 24 2004, 04:38 PM JlIaTMK yeah that always happens with me.... see i try to ... Jul 26 2004, 03:25 PM bibliomania Assuming sucks.
Had a friend who assumed a lot...... Jul 26 2004, 04:28 PM sandra yah people assume and jump into conclusions as soo... Jul 26 2004, 05:02 PM shawty_redd QUOTE(lilangelgurlpnai @ Jul 23 2004, 4:51 PM... Jul 26 2004, 09:08 PM anqie Why yes.
You're having an A B conversation an... Aug 5 2005, 10:10 AM RupertGrintluvr15 yeah, i hate it when i say something to my cousin ... Aug 5 2005, 10:38 AM iNyCxShoRT Yeah it gets me annoyed Once I was trying to set ... Aug 5 2005, 10:41 AM
incoherent yes...
but i assume a lot of things as well. Aug 5 2005, 11:43 AM |
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