rape, would would u do Options

[babexdragon]

so my friend asked me that one day

for me it would be a very difficult choice... if someone knew.. it would be such an embarassment to my family especially how alll my relatives are like crazy compettitng their kids to be the best... then it would be hard for a 16 yr old to keep her baby and go to school and do great in it. cant have an aboriton because we're catholic and it would suck... adoption would still mean carrying it for 9 months and then later give her/him away

what would u guys do

[jo3]

i'm not a girl, so my opinion is most likely biased (since i wouldn't have to deal w/ it as much), but i'd much rather keep the baby.

i know the whole process would traumatize you, and having a baby might make it worse, but i bet 20-30 years down the road, you'd think, "i'm so glad that i kept the baby because i love my child."

yea...it would suck....you would pretty much lose your life (to take care of your kid...unless your parents helped...which they should). but why kill a baby who might has potential to do something good in this world?

i had always taken the stance of letting the girls abort the baby if i wanted to...until i heard someone who had been born as a result of rape. he said he was so thankful that his mother had chosen to give birth and raise him, even though it would be hell on her