so...what do you look for in a girl?, [)MALE ONLY(] Options

[dzbemark]

hi just put what u guys look 4 in girls

[deadsouls]

The first thing I can notice is the first thing I can sense, and that is looks. Because before you actually meet the person, you see what they look like first. If they look really hot, or really or even mildly cute, you know that layer of attractivness is out of the way, time to move on to social personality. First I see how she acts around other people for a little bit, and if it's kewl, I go up to her and ask her about something or something like that and start a conversation with her. That's when we get to know eachother.

She has to be good with eye contact and not afraid to be honest with me. It's kewl if she's smart, but if she's so smart that she's constantly having to argue with me about everything, then it ruins it. I like a good sense of humor; like if I tell a joke that's normally really funny and if she just sits with a blank look on her face, that ruins it, or if she scratches her head and says "umm... i dont get it" when the point was obviously clear to everyone else, then you know she's a natural blond? lol, nah, anyway, you know what i mean.

While we get to know eachother, we talk about our problems and if she has low self-esteem, I really love to show them that they are really kewl to me in anyway I can.

I'm kinda spiritual, and if she's into that sorta thing, than we can talk in those terms. I've met alot of them who really like that, kinda serious talk. But it scares some people away so I analyze just how they are through our conversation before i get into that.

If enough sparks fly, I'll take them somewhere like a movie or dinner or whatever, and if she gives the right looks, makes the right moves, I'll comply and whallah!

Then it's a matter of seeing how good she is in bed when she's ready to go that far. But basically, it's all in the mind and how into eachother we are in my opinion.