does it annoy you when people assume..., to know what you're talking about? Options

[aud_chua]

here's the thing...
recently, one of my school mates signed up for xanga. i used to have a fling with him... now, we're kinda friends.. kinda not.. i don't even understand it...
anyway..! he found my account and started reading the things i wrote..... his name appeared a couple of time in some of the entries.. those had to do with how i felt/feel about him and what not.. later, he finds this entry that's about a night i spent with a guy.. there are no names in it; just pronouns.
then, he remembers about the time i told him that my family won't be home and i asked if he wanted to come over. his answer was vague and eventually, he didn't come. i didn't make a big deal out of it cuz i my other friend, who was visiting from the philippines, came over.
the point is, he thinks i was talking about him and that i was being "f**king delusional"!!! argh...!! i hate people like that!!!! i mean... why the hell is he assuming that i was talking about him!?!! i'm not desperate at all!!!! plus, he doesn't like me anymore and i don't like him anymore.. (but i'm not sure if that's clear since he did this..)
now, he's saying that i'm "f**king crazy" and "living in a fantasy world." bullshit!!! then he was like, "you're retarded" and some other crap like that.. i mean.. please!! the world does not revolve around him and it's not like he's the only guy i'm seeing....!!
well... yea.. that's enough of my ranting...
...so....
have any of you ever experienced that..? like people assume they know who or what you're talking about, and they think they know you..?? don't you find that rather annoying or aggravating..????

[aud_chua]

omfg...*totally agrees*
My number ONE HATE is people ASSUMING!!!!! Geezus, if I didn't announce to the whole world already, I hate people that assume! I feel you....and I'm serious. There's NOTHING worse than people accusing you for something you DID NOT DO...and they assumed you did it too! I'd probably rather die than let people do that to me (and no I'm not suggesting you to do so...never do that). I'm just saying I hate it that much. I can't say, "Just let him think that way," because that just doesn't work. Get that stupid boy back into reality. Tell him the world doesn't revolve around him, and there's more boys out that a thousand times better than him, so don't go assuming that he's at ANY kind of important place in your heart. Even tell him he's less than trash in your mind if that's how you feel right now...since he's calling you all these things. Geezus, making a big freakin deal out of this, he's retarded. I wish people like him never existed. He's only alive because it's illegal to kill him...

EXTREMELY EXTREMELY EXTREMELY NEARLY TO HATE THOSE PEOPLE...

hahaha...!! i'm glad someone here feels this much hate towards people like that...
yup... the only reason he's alive is cuz it's illegal to kill him...

well.. about blocking him, let's just say that he knows my account on xanga and is willing to make new accounts for himself if ever i block him.
starting a new xanga is not really the path for me cuz i don't feel like re-doing everything.......

i'm not sure how to confront him cuz he's like, "oh, don't talk you dare talk to me anymore, you freak!" (he wrote that on the chatterbox and i deleted it earlier) and he's out of town so i can't really retalliate.. only thing i did was make a notice on my xanga about that.. (if you wanna check it out, click here)