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my story, *sigh |
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![]() will dance 4 hugz ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 324 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,950 ![]() |
there is this guy that i've seen around, started to talk to, and am getting to know. he works right next to my work place. i'm starting to develop some feelings for him. haha... only thing is... i also have a feeling that he might be gay. i don't want to be stereotypical or anything, but there are so many reasons why i think he is gay.
here's a question for the guys: how would you feel if i (or any other girl) asked you if you were gay?? (even if you're not) haha i don't want to just ask him if he is gay, and i'm sure he's not going to tell me out in the open if he is. question for the girls: should i go out in the open and ask if he is gay? i don't want him to feel insulted if he isn't gay and i ask him. that would be embarrassing as well. and if he is gay, then cool. i'll still be his friend and all. haha... but i just want to know if he is or not. ![]() maybe i'll just wait and have him tell me himself. lol |
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![]() DefJam Gangsta Inc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 ![]() |
Greetings!!
being liberal as we may be, it's kinda on da offensive side if ya were to ask him if he was gay. how abt dis. continue ya 'friendship' wit him. get to know him better. once ya guys are comfortable enuf, make some moves to him. drop hints to him. make him realise ya wanna somethin else out of dis 'frienship' ya having wit him. and if he is really gay (as in happy), i think he would be delighted to have ya around. but if he is really gay, take it tat ya got another gay fren on top of other gay frens ya might have!! look on da bright side aight?! no matter how dark it may be!! CHEERS CB!! |
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