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 Jul 22 2004, 01:49 AM
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there is this guy that i've seen around, started to talk to, and am getting to know. he works right next to my work place. i'm starting to develop some feelings for him. haha... only thing is... i also have a feeling that he might be gay. i don't want to be stereotypical or anything, but there are so many reasons why i think he is gay.
here's a question for the guys: how would you feel if i (or any other girl) asked you if you were gay?? (even if you're not) haha i don't want to just ask him if he is gay, and i'm sure he's not going to tell me out in the open if he is. question for the girls: should i go out in the open and ask if he is gay? i don't want him to feel insulted if he isn't gay and i ask him. that would be embarrassing as well. and if he is gay, then cool. i'll still be his friend and all. haha... but i just want to know if he is or not.  maybe i'll just wait and have him tell me himself. lol |
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Jul 22 2004, 12:25 PM
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Don't ask him, "Are you gay?"
The better solution is to ask him if he'd like to go out. If he says no, then ask why. If you guys are becoming close friends, he may confide in you and tell you the truth. 
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soulovely my story Jul 22 2004, 01:49 AM
toxicwaste here's a question for the guys:
how would you ... Jul 22 2004, 02:30 AM hair products i get a lil mad if someone does ask. nothin again... Jul 22 2004, 02:36 AM pikimoo Tell him you like him. If he says he can't lik... Jul 22 2004, 02:54 AM DrEaMgUy2K1 well im a dude and im not gay,so if u would have a... Jul 22 2004, 03:22 AM Azarel I don't think you should ask him if he's g... Jul 22 2004, 03:24 AM someflipguy Yeah the best thing to do is tell him your feeling... Jul 22 2004, 08:18 AM Cynthee QUOTEquestion for the girls:
should i go out in th... Jul 22 2004, 09:12 AM mizz_mithy ask him out and see what he says. id he doesn... Jul 22 2004, 01:06 PM soulovely lol thanks you guys and girls. that was a weird p... Jul 22 2004, 03:20 PM toxicwaste lucky ole aaron to go on a date with such a lovely... Jul 22 2004, 04:22 PM laur3nw QUOTE(soulovely @ Jul 21 2004, 11:49 PM)quest... Jul 22 2004, 05:23 PM conster i think u should jus get to know him better and u... Jul 22 2004, 06:02 PM sunni_banana hmm i guess this is my idea on this....err i guess... Jul 23 2004, 12:05 AM defjam_gangsta Greetings!!
being liberal as we may be, i... Jul 23 2004, 02:40 AM party_pnai_pride just ask something casual relating to his sexual o... Jul 24 2004, 08:28 PM dahding depends on how the guy is. if he is easily offende... Jul 24 2004, 08:30 PM sunshiNe_sweeTi_ QUOTEquestion for the girls:
should i go out in th... Aug 13 2004, 04:39 PM
sweetdreamsx3 Oooh OOhs! This happened to me recently, but l... Aug 14 2004, 02:21 PM |
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