my story, *sigh Options

[soulovely]

there is this guy that i've seen around, started to talk to, and am getting to know. he works right next to my work place. i'm starting to develop some feelings for him. haha... only thing is... i also have a feeling that he might be gay. i don't want to be stereotypical or anything, but there are so many reasons why i think he is gay.

here's a question for the guys:
how would you feel if i (or any other girl) asked you if you were gay?? (even if you're not)

haha i don't want to just ask him if he is gay, and i'm sure he's not going to tell me out in the open if he is.

question for the girls:
should i go out in the open and ask if he is gay?

i don't want him to feel insulted if he isn't gay and i ask him. that would be embarrassing as well. and if he is gay, then cool. i'll still be his friend and all. haha... but i just want to know if he is or not.

maybe i'll just wait and have him tell me himself. lol

[toxicwaste]

here's a question for the guys:
how would you feel if i (or any other girl) asked you if you were gay?? (even if you're not)

It would be awkward... I would probably think every other girl would see me this way. But you must be in an awkward situration.

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