i'm confused.. ?, does he really want to be with me.. |
i'm confused.. ?, does he really want to be with me.. |
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okay. well here it is. my boyfriend and i have been out 6 times.. in a period of 11 months.. and i mean things are different this time. because he went out w/ someone else but then he broke up with her for me.. and now when we talk on the phone it seems as if things will never be the same.. i know they won't be but we broke up last time because he was getting sick of us fighting.. and i try not to fight with him but somehow either he or i gets mad over something [usually stupid] and we end up getting into it. i don't want to lose him, because i love him very much. and everytime i try to explain my feelings to him, it seems like he isn't listening or he is fed up with hearing it. what should i say to him? i just don't have anymore ideas. thanks
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If you guys fight a lot, try to be as calm as possible when you talk to him.
I agree with jrockdollie, you have to let him win some of the fights if you really want to be together with him. But of course that does NOT mean you have to give up everything. Once he realizes that you're only letting him win because you want this relationship to work out, he'll let you win some too. ![]() Good luck! ![]() |
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