When its over.., Is it really over?? Options

[ilovesoup]

I know guys that this isnt the right place to bitch bout my problems.. but i thought id share it with u guys since some of u like my other thread.. "IM AN X"
maybe u can learn something or maybe u can share bout ur thought about this too..but anyways.. have fun reading!!!

This is one of the mornings after another
sleepless night
that I cannot help not ask myself, why didn't I
have a good
night sleep again? Then I would just joke myself
and answer it
with, maybe someone's been thinking of me all
night... hahaha!

Jokes are always half-meant, a friend said
once. And maybe...
just maybe, behind that joke, there's this
wishful thinking that
someone has really been thinking of me. Then the
memory of
someone from the past would, again, bounce in my
head... disturb
my sanity and make my day half-miserable.

What if he's thinking about me? What if he
still loves me?
It's just another imagination, I know. Another
day of what if's
and maybe's.

For the 9nth time, I've told myself that when
it's over, it's
really over! There's no sense turning back or
even trying to
pick up the pieces again. It's time to move on
and face the
reality!

When it's over, is it really over?

When you decide to let go, do you really
succeed in letting
go?

I just heard the song of Sugar Ray a
while ago. Here's
the few lines that caught my attention:

When it's over, That's the time I fall in love
again...
When it's over, That's the time you're in my
heart again...

How can you possibly say it's over when you're
still in love
with the person you said you were over with
already? I guess
it's not that easy when the chain of the past
locks you in the
chest of false hopes and leads you to a place
called fantasy
with Cinderella and Snow white as your best
friends! The three
of you would gather on the hilltop and after a
while three
young drop-dead gorgeous princes would come
riding on their
horses to join the picnic under a three.

How pathetic! But, admit it or not, it's
true...

The hardest part of losing a loved one is to
accept the fact
that they're gone and might never come back
again. There are
things that will always remind you of your
togetherness... the
places you've been, his or her favorite food you
used to cook
for him or her, expressions you used to hear from
him or her and
songs you've both loved to sing.

These are the memories that'd linger on your
mind from time
to time. Because you were both in love before (or
so you think),
it makes you hope for another chance.

You begin to believe on what others said that
love is
lovelier the second time around and the line from
Ally McBeal,
"whoever said that 'plenty of fish in the sea'
thing is lying.
Sometimes, there's only one... trust me."

We would desperately believe that what happens
in the movies
might also happen to us one day.

Who didn't like the lines from the movie
"Runaway Bride"
where Julia Roberts told Richard Gere, "I
guarantee that we'll
have tough time; I guarantee that in some point,
one of us would
want to get out; I also guarantee that if I don't
ask you to be
mine, I'll regret this for the rest of my life,
'coz I know in
my
heart... you're the only one for me."

We tend to think that the person who left us
will come back
one day and say those words, or just simple words
but would
promise forever. Problems may occur every now and
then, but we
would consider those things as trials to be
conquered in order
for the relationship to bloom and mature.

Oouucchh! Reality just bit me!

More often than not, these romantic movies and
mushy love
songs only make us long for something we cannot
have... and for
someone who cannot be ours again. It hurts to
admit that we are
just pretending. All the while, we already knew
the truth but we
ignore it. When the damage is done, there's
nothing left to do
but cry... to mourn for the bitterness in our
hearts. Then curse
anybody who gets in the way.

I'm scared!!!

As long as we still hold on to the past, the
chance of
meeting someone new may be a bit far off the
field.

The fear of trusting and falling in love again
may also
hinder us to grow and move on. We are hesitant to
take the risk,
afraid that we may get hurt again. Because of the
negative
thoughts stocked in our brains, we refuse to go
out from our
self-made world and deprive ourselves from new
opportunities,
whether in love affairs or career wise.

Let's face it! Betrayal can be anywhere and
anyone can be a
victim. The worst part is when the one we truly,
madly and
deeply love is the one who will betray us in the
end. Then we
are left with nothing but a broken heart and
wounded pride.
Sad... but true.

Reality check please...

It can happen to anyone but we shouldn't just
take things as
it comes. An action must be done. We should take
care of
ourselves from the hungry wolves in the jungle.
It's just a
matter of survival. Stand up when you fall.

It's okay to cry as hard and as long as you
want to, just
make sure that when you stop crying, you won't
cry for the same
reason anymore. Learn and live. Love is the most
wonderful thing
one can offer, so be smart enough to give the
love in your heart
to the one who really deserves


</3 Rhaie

[*tyedyefroggy*]

whoa, someone else thinks these things too! I wonder myself about loving the same person again....

congrats on the way to put reality in the love life LoL

LaterZ

-Courtney