should i still hold on?, or should i just move on... |
 Jul 21 2004, 12:19 AM
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my bf nd i broke up a week ago cuz my parents didnt really ''approve'' of him nd they sorta ''threatened'' him to break up w/me or else sorta thing.. nd its really f**ked up.. let along it was so embarassing too.. but anyway.. i just couldnt accept reality and just.. acknowlege the fact that we broke up.. but we talked nd all and everytime i always end up crying and telling him that i cant let go nd just forgot.. and one day.. (2 days ago) he got totally fed up with me and yelled at me for tourturing him with all the whinings.. he said that i should really move on.. and that even tho he doesnt want to see me w/someone else.. he still wants me to move on nd find someone better.. and he also told my best friend that he will not move on until i do.. but all the while..he flirts with this chick right in frnt of my face.. they would get all heated up and he would look so happy.. and then he tells me that he still has feelings for me but he would try not to.. and that it would take him a long time to get over me.. so im just confused.. cuz i really love him.. and i dont know if i should stay nd wait for him (when i get further in life.. such as getting a job) or just move on nd see other guys.. the problem is that i dont kno if he really means it when he said that 'i wont move on till u do' and i dont wana hurt him by going out w/another guy.. so im kinda stuck... HELP!!
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Jul 21 2004, 02:26 PM
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It's unfair that you had to ruin a perfectly good relationship between you and your ex, just because of your parents. Maybe sit them down, and tell them that he is really a sweet guy, and that what you see on the outside, is not who he is on the inside, and that there's just a part of him that makes you love him so much.
Maybe they'll let you guys get back together. If that doesn't work, then date him undercover. 
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confused_azn should i still hold on? Jul 21 2004, 12:19 AM
black_cloud10 doesn't seem like your ready to start dating s... Jul 21 2004, 12:24 AM ilovesoup i kinda agree to black_cloud10 maybe ur X bf is on... Jul 21 2004, 12:55 AM strwbrryluv8 if he still likes you... n u still like/love him..... Jul 21 2004, 03:00 AM conster i think talkin to him about it should help u a lot... Jul 21 2004, 08:22 PM
defjam_gangsta Greetings!!
move one. get over it. no mat... Jul 23 2004, 06:03 AM |
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