should i still hold on?, or should i just move on... Options

[confused_azn]

my bf nd i broke up a week ago cuz my parents didnt really ''approve'' of him nd they sorta ''threatened'' him to break up w/me or else sorta thing.. nd its really f**ked up.. let along it was so embarassing too.. but anyway.. i just couldnt accept reality and just.. acknowlege the fact that we broke up.. but we talked nd all and everytime i always end up crying and telling him that i cant let go nd just forgot.. and one day.. (2 days ago) he got totally fed up with me and yelled at me for tourturing him with all the whinings.. he said that i should really move on.. and that even tho he doesnt want to see me w/someone else.. he still wants me to move on nd find someone better.. and he also told my best friend that he will not move on until i do.. but all the while..he flirts with this chick right in frnt of my face.. they would get all heated up and he would look so happy.. and then he tells me that he still has feelings for me but he would try not to.. and that it would take him a long time to get over me.. so im just confused.. cuz i really love him.. and i dont know if i should stay nd wait for him (when i get further in life.. such as getting a job) or just move on nd see other guys.. the problem is that i dont kno if he really means it when he said that 'i wont move on till u do' and i dont wana hurt him by going out w/another guy.. so im kinda stuck... HELP!!

[black_cloud10]

doesn't seem like your ready to start dating seriously again, but you're gonna have to move on. focus on your friends. start going out with them to the mall and stuff and don't be afraid to smile at the cute sales clerk or something. don't worry about your ex. i think he's in the weird transistion, wondering the same thing you are "should i move on or would it hurt her?" you have to move on.