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Jun 20 2004, 08:53 PM
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i have this friend who just..lacks any opinion of her own or any independance. dont get me wrong though, i love her to death, but sometimes i wish she would speak up more. she really needs more confidence. but sometimes i just cant stand it when people let others step all over them. her boyfriend is such an effing bastard sometimes, the way he talks to her i just wanna punch him, but its really none of my business, and i really wish she would stand up for herself. i dunno... had to get that out..
what are your thoughts on these kind of situations and people? |
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Jul 20 2004, 08:49 PM
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![]() hi. call me linda. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(love[x) melissa,Jun 21 2004, 10:16 AM] i used to be like that. the reason i was like that was because i was afraid of losing my friends, my boyfriend, and everything that mattered. so i'd just agree with everything, sit there and nod. it wasn't until certain people started asking me my opinion, getting me more involved in things, when i started to open up. take your friend out.. spend time with her. it might help. yeah, i agree with you. i used to be like that too, letting everyone walk over me because i was afraid of what they might think of my. i'm still a little bit like that though. but, yeah, when people started getting me involved in more things, i started to open up more too. so, i also think that you should talk to her. |
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[2]Nekked independance Jun 20 2004, 08:53 PM
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IIO__oII *sigh*
im like that. =/
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