interracial dating Options

[pbear]

People these days seem to against interracial dating, especially between Asians and whites. Is there something wrong with dating someone with a different skin color or ancestry?

[melface]

Nekked,Feb 24 2004, 5:57 AM] i kinda think this is true... but the fact that i think asian females are prettier than caucasian females isnt racism ... its an opinion. there is a big difference.
[edit: i'd just like to add that, again, since the definition of racism is 'the strong or irrational fear or hatred towards an entire ethnicity or race," and the sentence above wasnt said with any hate or fear towards people who arent asian, i'm not being racist]

I think it's pretty wrong that you said that asian females are prettier than caucasian females... Do you have something against all caucasian females? I mean, come on... I know it's your opinion... but I just want you to realize that you're categorizing all caucasian females and saying that all asian females are prettier than them... I mean, there are a LOT of caucasian females that are very beautiful... But, apparently, you don't see this... and I'm thinking that it's just because they're asian that makes them prettier... but, I'm not sure... but that's just how I read into it, you know?... and also, you might just think that because this is the United States (I'm assuming you live here, as well) and that the majority is caucasian... So, anyway... You shouldn't say that asian females are prettier than caucasian females because you should be open to what all races have to offer... (i'm not sure if this all makes sense... but hopefully you get my drift)...Anyway, sure it's your opinion... but in my opinion... your opinion is a bit skewed...

As for interracial dating... My ex boyfriend is black... and I'm hispanic... My family is against it, but they didn't know I was dating him... We were together for 2 years and we're still friends... My mom is fine with me hanging out with him, but I'm not sure how she would have taken it if she knew we were a couple... (if someone is planning to have an 'interracial relationship', I'm not telling you to keep it from your parents, if they don't accept it...) but it's also the safest way.... Because I know that if a parent is totally against it, they're going to try to separate you (I had a friend in this situation and she was black and asian and her boyfriend was from india and his parents went so far that they disenrolled him from school and were on the verge of sending him back to his country)... So, things like this can get extremely serious... but I say that two people can't help who they fall in love with or even who they like or just love them (there's a difference with people in love and just loving a person)... Dating outside of your race is a way for you to 'explore' other races... To see things the way another race sees things... for example, if you date someone who is black you see what they have to deal with from society... like racism or prejudice -- at least I learned from my ex boyfriend... To me, it's a beautiful thing... and being as open as possible makes you even a better person....


err, sorry so long...