he's leaving..., about this guy moving. Options

[xinfamousXpinayx]

well..theres this guy, kris. he is one of my best friends. we did have feelings for one another but then we talked about it and we said that it'd be best if we would just stay friends because it might ruin our relationship that we already have. and one other reason is because he is moving in two days.

and lately he's been spending alot of time with this other girl. almost everynite. and yesterday i find out that they kissed. then early this morning. i asked him if they were going out, and he was like.. uhhhhhhh uhhmmm errr. all that bullshiet. then he told me yea they were going out. then i told him that he was moving in two days. then he leaves to go to her house because he was complaining about how me and another friend were dissing all tha girls that he went out with.

first of all..i never said anything about the ghirls. i dont judge people i dont kno.

he told me that he didnt want to get attached to anyone because he was already attached to me and he didnt want to lose another close friend. but now he goes on and gets with another girl, 2 days before he leaves. wat kind of shiet is that?

[Darkpekkle]

yikes. what a bum! he probably has his own reasons though... but brushing you off like that (when you confronted him about his newfound gf) was really mean of him.

Maybe he was telling the truth when he said he didn't want to go out with you because of the "it might ruin the friendship" thing.. the 'moving' reason could have been a minor/less important reason.... Perhaps his new gf wasn't a close friend of his, so when he moves and the relationship ends, he won't have to worry about losing her friendship, cuz she was never that close to begin with... so there's less risk involved...

I hope that made sense... Basically, what I'm trying to say is that... he doesn't want to go out with you because he doesn't want to ruin the good friendship between you two... so he goes out with someone who is not as close to him.. if he breaks up with her, then he doesn't lose as much... as opposed to going out with you (he could lose you, the good/close friend).

hrmm, but then again.. him accusing you of dissing his gfs (when you didn't) was such a bastardly thing to do. >.< idk, leave him alone for awhile, and then try talking to him again?