loving a girl, just brokeup with my gf to wait... Options

[co0nster421]

hey im new to this forum. anyways i broke it off with my gf a few weeks ago n im jus feeling messed up. well to start off she's 16, and i jus turned 20. i really love her but i feel like the age difference is to0 much. i see her friends look at me and i know what they're thinking: "he's 20, all he wants is sex" anyway i've known her for a long time now and it's hard to deny that urge to... ya kno. so i broke it off before we ever had the chance to... i never wanted things to end this way. she has a bright future and i dont want to mess things up for her. guys can be total @$$holes when they get all pervy. made me realize that love and sex are two different things. she's going through alot at that age and i jus dont think im go0d enough for her. u shouldnt be in love at 16. u should still be having fun and enjoying that hs life. i still wana be a part of her life but im not sure how to talk to her without making her feel... well i need advice

[Darkpekkle]

age difference dont matter.. my ex is 20.. and he is going
out with somone younger then 16.. it doesnt matter..
she changed him in so many ways.. and im happy about that..
i think it was lyke 3 or 4 weeks ago they broke up..
they were both depress..
..he broke up with her.. and yea.. he brought up the
excuse about the age difference.. a few days later..
i talked to that punk head.... and on that day.. i saw
them lay'n on the ground sleeping....
...she too is going through a lot at this moment..
but she is stay'n strong.. and her boy is right there
to be there for her when she needs someone...

you said shes going through a lot right?.. isnt this
break up making it worst on her?
....if she makes you happy.. why end that happieness?
it better then feeling mess up, upset and depress.
good luck to you.

i agree with her ^.

If both of you were happy... why not continue being happy? let her know you love her ... she's probably feeling really upset right now. tell her exactly what you told us.

4 years isn't that bad... as long as both parties behave maturely. ppo always say.. "with love, age is just a number" or something like that.