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my friend cuts :(
alli
post Jul 9 2004, 05:01 PM
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my friend...shes 14 her dad died about a yr ago and shes been depressed and now shes cutting herself...i told her its not good and she should stop but she wont listen to me...and im scared that she mite do somethin more serious to hurt herself and i dont no what to say or do! HELP!
 
 
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post Jul 16 2004, 12:09 AM
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Okay ..... Sigh sad.gif I used to be a cutter I stoped because it was a choice if I stay a cutter my b/f was gonna brake up with me and if i stopped he would stay with me ... I'm sorry out friend is going threw the depresstion but I bet she needs some time alone i know i have a hole bunch of shit on my back cuz parents are drunkies and they beat me sometimes always yelling and well eveyone is scared of me or they hate me yes im a Rocker/ Gothic so i like to be left alone the only person i love to talk to is my b/f so if you are a good friend give her a week or two and then take her out somewhere let her forget about cutting just let her relax it is a addiction and someone said no one likes pain who ever said that is wrong when your a cutter you like the pain it we blame everything on ourselfvs so we think we have to punish ourself so if u have questions about what a cutter thinks just reply and ill read but one thing I stopped cutting for a reason the reason was my b/f find her a reason to stop telll her what she wants to here she wants to here nice thing i bet she is sick of all the shit people put her threw and she is using S/I t her the poeple around her ..... okay well now this made me sad i was trying forget i was a cutter it makes me sad cuz well my b/f almost broke up with me for it and i love him to death and i g2g now so ttyl bye
 

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alli   my friend cuts :(   Jul 9 2004, 05:01 PM
ch33sylici0us   Sometimes its better to not force her to stop or p...   Jul 9 2004, 05:12 PM
chanleythemanley   Talk to her sounds corny but you should try it. I ...   Jul 9 2004, 05:27 PM
babixlilac   talk to her or maybe talk to a adult that can help...   Jul 9 2004, 05:29 PM
alli   thanks everyone for ur help!! i pray she s...   Jul 9 2004, 06:34 PM
xsweetdreams12x   I've never been in this sort of situation befo...   Jul 9 2004, 07:25 PM
archana   This might sound corny, but I guarantee she'll...   Jul 9 2004, 07:47 PM
cutielilsuga   take her to see a couselor and to help her deal wi...   Jul 9 2004, 08:47 PM
LatinaLady   get her some help she is already hurting emotional...   Jul 9 2004, 09:41 PM
AGlobalThreatPunx3   hey thanks ch33sylici0us that was rather some good...   Jul 9 2004, 10:38 PM
oOjenniOo   eh.. i don't want to sound bad, but half the p...   Jul 9 2004, 10:40 PM
IIO__oII   o no... make sure she knoes that u LOVE herr!...   Jul 9 2004, 11:04 PM
fresaqueen   i've never had a friend that cuts..but if i we...   Jul 9 2004, 11:38 PM
x rOck mai sOcksz   ya knoe...honestly i used to cut because on the fi...   Jul 9 2004, 11:41 PM
smallymollyLINDA   well....if yooh have a friend that cuts herself......   Jul 9 2004, 11:49 PM
someflipguy   I heard horror stories about my ex in a bathroom w...   Jul 9 2004, 11:57 PM
x hYpErRoSeY x   omg thats scary about your ex- i heard of a sitch ...   Jul 10 2004, 12:02 AM
lostinmydreams09   What ever you do, dont rat her out. Dont get other...   Jul 10 2004, 05:09 PM
islandkiss   aww.. okay. this is really serious. she's re...   Jul 10 2004, 09:09 PM
death_kitten   Okay ..... Sigh I used to be a cutter I stoped ...   Jul 16 2004, 12:09 AM
ichiban   Yeah I think you should have a serious talk with h...   Jul 16 2004, 12:25 AM
DrEaMgUy2K1   my sister and one of my ex girlfriends cut, u cant...   Jul 16 2004, 03:20 AM
NvieDi3ai3yGrL   there's not much you can do to stop it .. try ...   Jul 16 2004, 03:38 AM
xpiixeespriitx   i had a friend the exact same way,a nd i just made...   Jul 16 2004, 10:10 PM
defjam_gangsta   GREETINGS!! i've frens who cut their ...   Jul 17 2004, 07:47 AM
sunshiNe_sweeTi_   telling her that it's not good won't mean ...   Aug 9 2004, 05:14 PM
DrEaMgUy2K1   my sister and my one of my ex girlfriend cuts,yea ...   Aug 9 2004, 05:19 PM
MyVermilionPlague   QUOTE(defjam_gangsta @ Jul 17 2004, 7:47 AM)G...   Aug 9 2004, 05:21 PM
sheepy   i dink you should tell an adult. or you could tell...   Aug 9 2004, 05:59 PM
XxBeExOHxX   talk to heR? psh, ya right, force her to stop, yel...   Aug 10 2004, 12:37 AM
XxBeExOHxX   talk to heR? psh, ya right, force her to stop, yel...   Aug 10 2004, 12:37 AM
SH0RTAYE   tell her to stop in a playful-but-serious way . l...   Aug 10 2004, 02:56 AM
sammi rules you   you should reccommend her to a psychiatrist, or re...   Aug 10 2004, 03:04 AM
waccoon   QUOTE(VaguelyAware @ Aug 10 2004, 4:04 AM)you...   Aug 10 2004, 03:05 AM
black_cloud10   *clutches skizzors* i'm glad none of you are m...   Aug 10 2004, 03:11 AM


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