best friend and boyfriend at the same time?, doesn't seem to make sense... |
 Jul 12 2004, 01:55 PM
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 !shobe!  Group: Member Posts: 664 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,912  |
so.. i've been really great friends with this guy. we're kinda like family now.. the thing is.. he's been making moves on me and i don't know what to make of it. yes, i do have feelings for him but i don't want to tell him cuz whatever it is we have right now might disappear. he seems to be wanting to take our relationship a step up but he never announces it. i, on the other hand, just give in to what he does. he kisses, i kiss back. nothing is said afterwards.. i know for a fact that he's not using me cuz he knows me well enough that i wouldn't fall for a silly trick like that..
the thing is, i know communication is the issue here.. but it just doesn't seem to fit. we're really close and yet, we can't tell each other how we feel (or i can't anyway..) is it possible to act like you're together but you're only bestfriends? |
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Jul 15 2004, 07:07 PM
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aBABYmomma Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,380 |
QUOTE(Darkpekkle @ Jul 12 2004, 3:00 PM) relationships are all about taking chances. it seems that both of you really like each other, and if i were you, i would take the chance because i don't want to keep wondering what would've/could've happened... and why let another girl have someone you like? don't let good opportunities pass you by, because sometimes... you won't get a second chance. and if the bf/gf thing doesn't work out, it doesn't necessarily mean that you will lose your best friend. i mean yea, it happens but it all depends on how the relationship ends (did someone cheat? etc.), and if both parties still wanna be friends at the end of the bf/gf thing. True!! I so agree with that... So who said that your boyfriend can't be your bestfriend?? My boyfriend is my bestfriend. And we've been together for like 3 years.. and we're havin a baby!! so.. yeah... he can be both... you just have to open up and talk... if he wont say nothing after you too kiss... then maybe you should.. like.. "that was nice.. i like this...you&me.. its a nice thing.." haha i dunno.. thats cute.. but yeah hope everything works out for you!!! |
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aud_chua best friend and boyfriend at the same time? Jul 12 2004, 01:55 PM
sadolakced acid do you want him as a best friend or a boy friend? ... Jul 12 2004, 02:07 PM aud_chua i guess i want him as a boyfriend. but once that... Jul 12 2004, 02:33 PM xsweetdreams12x If you're like family, family doesn't kiss... Jul 12 2004, 02:38 PM ThePrincessofTKD QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jul 12 2004, 2:07 PM)... Jul 12 2004, 02:41 PM aud_chua ugh.. ashlee simpson...... well... at least i didn... Jul 12 2004, 02:56 PM Darkpekkle relationships are all about taking chances. it se... Jul 12 2004, 03:00 PM sheepy QUOTE(Darkpekkle @ Jul 12 2004, 3:00 PM)relat... Jul 12 2004, 05:11 PM x0143637x0 well id rather have a best friend than a boyfriend... Jul 12 2004, 05:21 PM aud_chua QUOTE(x0143637x0 @ Jul 12 2004, 5:21 PM)well ... Jul 15 2004, 01:10 PM xinfamousXpinayx man o man o man. sounds exactly how my relationshi... Jul 15 2004, 01:28 PM FrUiTy TuTie i agree with darkpekkle.. u should take the chance... Jul 15 2004, 01:35 PM XaZnX07 i think since you guys are so closes then your rel... Jul 15 2004, 01:38 PM dani41790 err that sounds confusing but umm i think u guys s... Jul 15 2004, 02:33 PM islandkiss QUOTE(aud_chua @ Jul 12 2004, 2:33 PM)i guess... Jul 15 2004, 03:31 PM audory QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jul 12 2004, 2:07 PM)... Jul 15 2004, 04:43 PM Boricuahh_Mamii if ur really close i guess that u should try it ou... Jul 15 2004, 09:42 PM conster he can ur bf AND best friend, a lot of couples tre... Jul 15 2004, 10:59 PM babiexmuii he can be both-a bff is a person to tell everythin... Jul 15 2004, 11:11 PM babygurl_xtacy to some people... their bfs are their best friends... Jul 16 2004, 12:53 AM
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