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best friend and boyfriend at the same time?, doesn't seem to make sense...
aud_chua
post Jul 12 2004, 01:55 PM
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so.. i've been really great friends with this guy. we're kinda like family now.. the thing is.. he's been making moves on me and i don't know what to make of it. yes, i do have feelings for him but i don't want to tell him cuz whatever it is we have right now might disappear. he seems to be wanting to take our relationship a step up but he never announces it. i, on the other hand, just give in to what he does. he kisses, i kiss back. nothing is said afterwards.. i know for a fact that he's not using me cuz he knows me well enough that i wouldn't fall for a silly trick like that..
the thing is, i know communication is the issue here.. but it just doesn't seem to fit. we're really close and yet, we can't tell each other how we feel (or i can't anyway..)
is it possible to act like you're together but you're only bestfriends?
 
 
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post Jul 15 2004, 04:43 PM
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QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jul 12 2004, 2:07 PM)
do you want him as a best friend or a boy friend?

after he's your boy friend, there's no going back to best friend. the relationship will always be strained after that.

well actually i went owt w/ my best guy fwend nd we broke up lyk a month ago nd were still best fwends... so i guess it depends on the ppl.. or the intensity of the break-up... huh.gif if that makes sense.. xD
 

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aud_chua   best friend and boyfriend at the same time?   Jul 12 2004, 01:55 PM
sadolakced acid   do you want him as a best friend or a boy friend? ...   Jul 12 2004, 02:07 PM
aud_chua   i guess i want him as a boyfriend. but once that...   Jul 12 2004, 02:33 PM
xsweetdreams12x   If you're like family, family doesn't kiss...   Jul 12 2004, 02:38 PM
ThePrincessofTKD   QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jul 12 2004, 2:07 PM)...   Jul 12 2004, 02:41 PM
aud_chua   ugh.. ashlee simpson...... well... at least i didn...   Jul 12 2004, 02:56 PM
Darkpekkle   relationships are all about taking chances. it se...   Jul 12 2004, 03:00 PM
sheepy   QUOTE(Darkpekkle @ Jul 12 2004, 3:00 PM)relat...   Jul 12 2004, 05:11 PM
x0143637x0   well id rather have a best friend than a boyfriend...   Jul 12 2004, 05:21 PM
aud_chua   QUOTE(x0143637x0 @ Jul 12 2004, 5:21 PM)well ...   Jul 15 2004, 01:10 PM
xinfamousXpinayx   man o man o man. sounds exactly how my relationshi...   Jul 15 2004, 01:28 PM
FrUiTy TuTie   i agree with darkpekkle.. u should take the chance...   Jul 15 2004, 01:35 PM
XaZnX07   i think since you guys are so closes then your rel...   Jul 15 2004, 01:38 PM
dani41790   err that sounds confusing but umm i think u guys s...   Jul 15 2004, 02:33 PM
islandkiss   QUOTE(aud_chua @ Jul 12 2004, 2:33 PM)i guess...   Jul 15 2004, 03:31 PM
audory   QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jul 12 2004, 2:07 PM)...   Jul 15 2004, 04:43 PM
always_n0vember   QUOTE(Darkpekkle @ Jul 12 2004, 3:00 PM)relat...   Jul 15 2004, 07:07 PM
Boricuahh_Mamii   if ur really close i guess that u should try it ou...   Jul 15 2004, 09:42 PM
conster   he can ur bf AND best friend, a lot of couples tre...   Jul 15 2004, 10:59 PM
babiexmuii   he can be both-a bff is a person to tell everythin...   Jul 15 2004, 11:11 PM
babygurl_xtacy   to some people... their bfs are their best friends...   Jul 16 2004, 12:53 AM
defjam_gangsta   GREETINGS!! ya walkin on a pit of fire. b...   Jul 17 2004, 08:43 AM


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