best friend and boyfriend at the same time?, doesn't seem to make sense... |
 Jul 12 2004, 01:55 PM
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 !shobe!  Group: Member Posts: 664 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,912  |
so.. i've been really great friends with this guy. we're kinda like family now.. the thing is.. he's been making moves on me and i don't know what to make of it. yes, i do have feelings for him but i don't want to tell him cuz whatever it is we have right now might disappear. he seems to be wanting to take our relationship a step up but he never announces it. i, on the other hand, just give in to what he does. he kisses, i kiss back. nothing is said afterwards.. i know for a fact that he's not using me cuz he knows me well enough that i wouldn't fall for a silly trick like that..
the thing is, i know communication is the issue here.. but it just doesn't seem to fit. we're really close and yet, we can't tell each other how we feel (or i can't anyway..) is it possible to act like you're together but you're only bestfriends? |
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Jul 15 2004, 03:31 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
QUOTE(aud_chua @ Jul 12 2004, 2:33 PM) i guess i want him as a boyfriend. but once that's done, like you said, the relationship gets strained.. i don't want that to happen. just take your time and work on your problems. tell him how you feel.. if you want this to work then you have to try. |
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aud_chua best friend and boyfriend at the same time? Jul 12 2004, 01:55 PM
sadolakced acid do you want him as a best friend or a boy friend? ... Jul 12 2004, 02:07 PM aud_chua i guess i want him as a boyfriend. but once that... Jul 12 2004, 02:33 PM xsweetdreams12x If you're like family, family doesn't kiss... Jul 12 2004, 02:38 PM ThePrincessofTKD QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jul 12 2004, 2:07 PM)... Jul 12 2004, 02:41 PM aud_chua ugh.. ashlee simpson...... well... at least i didn... Jul 12 2004, 02:56 PM Darkpekkle relationships are all about taking chances. it se... Jul 12 2004, 03:00 PM sheepy QUOTE(Darkpekkle @ Jul 12 2004, 3:00 PM)relat... Jul 12 2004, 05:11 PM x0143637x0 well id rather have a best friend than a boyfriend... Jul 12 2004, 05:21 PM aud_chua QUOTE(x0143637x0 @ Jul 12 2004, 5:21 PM)well ... Jul 15 2004, 01:10 PM xinfamousXpinayx man o man o man. sounds exactly how my relationshi... Jul 15 2004, 01:28 PM FrUiTy TuTie i agree with darkpekkle.. u should take the chance... Jul 15 2004, 01:35 PM XaZnX07 i think since you guys are so closes then your rel... Jul 15 2004, 01:38 PM dani41790 err that sounds confusing but umm i think u guys s... Jul 15 2004, 02:33 PM audory QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jul 12 2004, 2:07 PM)... Jul 15 2004, 04:43 PM always_n0vember QUOTE(Darkpekkle @ Jul 12 2004, 3:00 PM)relat... Jul 15 2004, 07:07 PM Boricuahh_Mamii if ur really close i guess that u should try it ou... Jul 15 2004, 09:42 PM conster he can ur bf AND best friend, a lot of couples tre... Jul 15 2004, 10:59 PM babiexmuii he can be both-a bff is a person to tell everythin... Jul 15 2004, 11:11 PM babygurl_xtacy to some people... their bfs are their best friends... Jul 16 2004, 12:53 AM
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