best friend and boyfriend at the same time?, doesn't seem to make sense... |
best friend and boyfriend at the same time?, doesn't seem to make sense... |
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![]() !shobe! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 664 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,912 ![]() |
so.. i've been really great friends with this guy. we're kinda like family now.. the thing is.. he's been making moves on me and i don't know what to make of it. yes, i do have feelings for him but i don't want to tell him cuz whatever it is we have right now might disappear. he seems to be wanting to take our relationship a step up but he never announces it. i, on the other hand, just give in to what he does. he kisses, i kiss back. nothing is said afterwards.. i know for a fact that he's not using me cuz he knows me well enough that i wouldn't fall for a silly trick like that..
the thing is, i know communication is the issue here.. but it just doesn't seem to fit. we're really close and yet, we can't tell each other how we feel (or i can't anyway..) is it possible to act like you're together but you're only bestfriends? |
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![]() Member ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 12 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,631 ![]() |
man o man o man. sounds exactly how my relationship is rite now. except that tha fact that my guy is moving. we're not going out..but we shure act like we do. we're juss scared to admit to each other that we like each other bekoz 1. he's moving. 2. we dont want our relationship to end up getting ruined bekoz if we do go out..then we feel that if one of us breaks up with one another our friendship will never be tha same. my guy is close like family..but isnt. he juss gets along with them realli well.
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