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being TOO shy, when it comes to talking to ur crush....
adnilamila_fe
post Jul 12 2004, 08:41 PM
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i like this guy who's a sophomore in high school, well going to be when school starts and i'm freshman. i like this guy ever since the first day of 7th grade for me. see, before i told him i like him, i could KINDA talk to him...sometimes. but still, i could neva start a conversation with him.

we are both in marching band and over the summer, we have band camp and stuff. last saturday was the second meeting of band camp and i told myself that i would AT LEAST say Hi to him cuz I'm REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY shy towards guys. so saying hi to him would be a huge achievement for me. but after band was over, i didn't get a chance to talk to him because 1) i finished packing away my instrument, 2) i already put away the stand and chair, and 3) he was still packing. i left before i could say hi or him finished packin away his trombone.

I was SO shy that i couldn't even walk up to the dude and say a simple hello! and i never felt this way about a guy before and this crush is the LONGEST i ever have. everytime i'm around him, i just freeze and can't make a simple conversation with him nor say a simple hey. i get butterflies in my stomach and my knees weaken. i try to be myself around him ( a kinda weird, sometimes funny, TALKING a lot girl) but for some reason i can't. the only time i can talk to him is when my best friend starts the conversation. this may sound selfish but I want to start the converation but i can't.

any advice for breakin my shy shell toward guys esp. to the guy that I have been crushin on ever since 7th grade???????
 
 
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ibabyqrlx
post Jul 14 2004, 09:03 PM
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i guess u can get his sn.. and talk to him online. if ur wondering how to ask him, wait til next time ur best friend starts the convo and just ask him for his sn. it wont be so bad after talking to him online..
 

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adnilamila_fe   being TOO shy   Jul 12 2004, 08:41 PM
fullmusicedmajor   well as a person who used to do marching band...an...   Jul 12 2004, 08:55 PM
fullmusicedmajor   what instrument do you play?   Jul 12 2004, 08:55 PM
kaleidoscoped   Talk to him online first, get to know each other. ...   Jul 12 2004, 08:57 PM
adnilamila_fe   QUOTE(fullmusicedmajor @ Jul 12 2004, 8:55 PM...   Jul 12 2004, 08:58 PM
xsweetdreams12x   Ask for his screen name. That way you can get to k...   Jul 12 2004, 09:14 PM
sweetbaby109   well, i don't know if he has a s/n. cuz i aske...   Jul 12 2004, 09:23 PM
adnilamila_fe   QUOTE(sweetbaby109 @ Jul 12 2004, 9:23 PM)wel...   Jul 12 2004, 09:26 PM
head_0ver_heels   Just try to be confident...be a little outgoing..I...   Jul 12 2004, 09:38 PM
azn_r4pf4n   QUOTE(adnilamila_fe @ Jul 12 2004, 8:41 PM)i ...   Jul 12 2004, 10:00 PM
sheepy   talk to him . relax. b urself!   Jul 14 2004, 01:19 PM
babixlilac   my friend also had da same problem buh she patted ...   Jul 14 2004, 01:35 PM
islandkiss   it's normal to be shy towards the person that ...   Jul 14 2004, 01:51 PM
hybrid   "Accidentally" bump into him. That's...   Jul 14 2004, 02:37 PM
dani41790   QUOTE(lilangelgurlpnai @ Jul 14 2004, 9:37 AM...   Jul 14 2004, 03:01 PM
ThePrincessofTKD   damn...you are too shy. if you`re going to ke...   Jul 14 2004, 03:46 PM
conster   wow ur jus like my best friend.. i dunno.. shyness...   Jul 14 2004, 07:38 PM
ibabyqrlx   i guess u can get his sn.. and talk to him online....   Jul 14 2004, 09:03 PM
adnilamila_fe   hey, thanks for all da advices, u guyz. i'll t...   Jul 14 2004, 10:47 PM
ichiban   Get his sn or somethin .. or try .. talkin online ...   Jul 14 2004, 10:52 PM
MyVermilionPlague   Yah. I'm shy, too.. even with my boyfriend, ha...   Jul 15 2004, 12:12 AM


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