After The Break Up..., do you stay friends? |
 May 29 2004, 11:51 PM
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i know how most people say "lets just be friends" when they break up, but do you actually stay as friends after the break up?
i'm actually still friends with all my exes except for maybe like the first bf i had, well i don't really consider SOME those a relationship anymore now that i look back, they were just too short to be considerd a relationship... in my opinion less than 3 months... |
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Jul 13 2004, 10:33 PM
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some ex's stay friends, but a lot don't 'cuz it's just too hard- too much drama and bad emotions from the experience & sometimes you just want to forget that they ever stepped into your life (cuz for some, it hurts to remember)
 i think it depends on the effort each party makes. i'm friends with a few of my ex's. the others are either: 1. they're bad people. or 2. they are unwilling to cooperate and are unwilling to even try to be friends. 
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177emories After The Break Up... May 29 2004, 11:51 PM
xtremeliquid You can always try to be friends. May 29 2004, 11:59 PM DaToNeViEtBoI916 second!! well im still frienz wif mai exes... May 30 2004, 12:00 AM xtremeliquid It might feel weird afterwards thats why. May 30 2004, 12:36 AM XxKrNqTcUiTyxX im still friends with mai exes May 30 2004, 12:38 AM fionnaax33 [FONT=Arial][SIZE=1]i guess it depends on who you ... May 31 2004, 01:34 PM xquizit nope, the majority of my breakups are messy. May 31 2004, 01:41 PM phatty nope im not friends w. my exes May 31 2004, 02:05 PM x_perplexity im friends with all my ex boyfriends because they ... May 31 2004, 02:09 PM illuminessence with most of my exes, we are cool, but the one tha... May 31 2004, 02:16 PM immersion31 i'm still friends with my ex gf's May 31 2004, 02:36 PM opim I'm still friends with half of my ex's. O... May 31 2004, 03:00 PM mai_z im still friends with all of them, why make it har... May 31 2004, 04:44 PM rivendell Most of my breakups are messy messy things, and I... May 31 2004, 04:47 PM StarryEyedSurprize i at least *TRY* to stay friends with my ex boyfri... May 31 2004, 04:51 PM dukesoccer07 9 out of 10 people do not stay friends... that sho... May 31 2004, 04:55 PM omgitsaudrey Ehh, it took me a couple of months, but we're ... May 31 2004, 06:16 PM barbie in some cases yes, but in alot no. either too pain... Jun 9 2004, 07:13 PM Winter I've only had to real BFs and the break ups we... Jun 9 2004, 08:49 PM jUsT eRiCa no, because there's a reason for them being my... Jun 9 2004, 08:54 PM silver rain well, my boyfriend and i broke up mutually, but i ... Jun 9 2004, 09:15 PM dani41790 im stio frenz with mai exs. in fact im almost best... Jun 9 2004, 09:22 PM psychoticangel hrm... well as far as I know, some break ups end u... Jun 10 2004, 08:13 AM islandkiss I have a thread that relates to this. It depends o... Jun 10 2004, 08:46 AM sheepy QUOTE(mai_z @ May 31 2004, 4:44 PM)im still f... Jul 9 2004, 07:37 PM cutielilsuga yup my and ex and me stayed friends for a while no... Jul 9 2004, 07:44 PM x0143637x0 im not friends with one of my exs.. but tha other... Jul 9 2004, 07:47 PM LiTToE_sLeEpii I don't think i'm ever friends with any of... Jul 13 2004, 03:51 PM DrEaMgUy2K1 usually i dont talk to them for a while,but then a... Jul 13 2004, 04:14 PM NawtyLilAznChic im friends wit only my first ex, kinda
i blocked ... Jul 13 2004, 04:20 PM LiNHy POO most i stayed friends with.. the guys at school i ... Jul 13 2004, 05:36 PM mouse_3k My ex bf said tht *lets just be friends* thing. we... Jul 13 2004, 07:22 PM NvieDi3ai3yGrL it's really hard to just stay friends when you... Jul 13 2004, 10:31 PM ichiban I was with this guy for 4 days ... back in decembe... Jul 13 2004, 11:02 PM yummienoodles my ex and i are trying to be friends bcuz like we ... Jul 14 2004, 12:12 AM defjam_gangsta Greetings!!
its kinda tough but it's ... Jul 18 2004, 02:43 PM nyCzxfOx i stay friends with most of them cept one.. iwas t... Jul 18 2004, 02:53 PM mizz_mithy i went out wit this boyu and when we broke up he m... Jul 18 2004, 03:05 PM itskatherine XD im trying to stay friends with my ex, but its hard... Jul 18 2004, 03:50 PM xsweetdreams12x I've never been in a relationship, so I can... Jul 18 2004, 03:51 PM sandra hmm my ex never said lets be friend. so we no long... Jul 18 2004, 08:50 PM babieshortie i guess i TRY to stay as frends..
otherwise we jus... Jul 18 2004, 11:14 PM strwbrryluv8 QUOTE(babieshortie @ Jul 18 2004, 11:14 PM)i ... Jul 18 2004, 11:30 PM sh0rt13 hm..well im not really friends w/ my first bf...i ... Jul 18 2004, 11:36 PM sweetlyz not really friends but acquaintances. as for my r... Jul 19 2004, 01:29 AM blowpops69 sort of. my 1st one is stilll a butthole. every1 i... Jul 19 2004, 01:53 PM SSJ Kenshin Yeah. We usually do. None of my ex's ever had ... Jul 19 2004, 05:37 PM sweetlaochick hm.......well at first we say that and its akward.... Jul 19 2004, 05:42 PM FreeStickers I've stayed friends with all my ex boyfriends ... Jul 19 2004, 05:47 PM sweetdreamsx3 You can try, but then eventually I ruin it. LOL :D... Aug 12 2004, 08:58 PM ceng me and my ex broke up like a week ago.. and he sai... Aug 13 2004, 01:37 AM c0nfus3dmisfit yeah i try to stay friends. no point in ruining a ... Aug 13 2004, 01:43 AM
dreamerOi usually just like half im friends and half im not ... Aug 14 2004, 01:36 AM |
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