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hes leading me on...., i like him but then i dont...
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post Jul 13 2004, 11:04 AM
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well ive been liking this guy for a 3 months now..hes been sooo nice to me ever since..he flirts alot.. and to me it seems like he does have feelings for me.. i mean he really flirts with me..sumtimes the stuff he does for me it makes my heart melt..the smallest things that a guy does can be the best things they do.. he really confuses me.. i dunno for a fact if he knows i like him..but im sure he knows...oneminute i like him the next i dont..i dunno...when i start to hang out with him i start liking him again but when i dont hang out with him..i dunt really feel anything.. im just so confused...the other day i heard from my friend that he likes some other girl..and i was really sad..it just pisses me off because he leads me on...he flirts..and shit and im mad at him but i really dunno..and these past days i cant stop thinking about him...

what should i do? i really wanna forget about him..cause i know it wont go anywhere..but i cant stop thinking about him.. sad.gif
 
 
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post Jul 13 2004, 03:15 PM
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some guys just have that kind of personality- they don't really mean any harm or want to hurt your feelings, but they really don't know where to draw the line between flirting and just being nice to a friend. ermm.gif

maybe he doesn't even know that he's flirting with you. try not to blame him for leading you on, 'cuz sometimes it's unintentional. you may think that he's leading you on, because you're hoping that he does like you in that way, which may cause you to read his signals all wrong. _unsure.gif

besides, the fact that you only like him when you hang out with him, and don't feel anything when he's not around, may suggest that ... perhaps you appreciate everything he's doing for you, but don't really like him for him? (i mean, who wouldn't appreciate a guy that's so nice to you? happy.gif )

on the flipside, maybe he does like you. i guess you won't really know until you ask him about it. and be sure to ask your friend how she found out about him liking somebody else. it may not be true.

take cares~ _smile.gif
 

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