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being TOO shy, when it comes to talking to ur crush....
adnilamila_fe
post Jul 12 2004, 08:41 PM
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i like this guy who's a sophomore in high school, well going to be when school starts and i'm freshman. i like this guy ever since the first day of 7th grade for me. see, before i told him i like him, i could KINDA talk to him...sometimes. but still, i could neva start a conversation with him.

we are both in marching band and over the summer, we have band camp and stuff. last saturday was the second meeting of band camp and i told myself that i would AT LEAST say Hi to him cuz I'm REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY shy towards guys. so saying hi to him would be a huge achievement for me. but after band was over, i didn't get a chance to talk to him because 1) i finished packing away my instrument, 2) i already put away the stand and chair, and 3) he was still packing. i left before i could say hi or him finished packin away his trombone.

I was SO shy that i couldn't even walk up to the dude and say a simple hello! and i never felt this way about a guy before and this crush is the LONGEST i ever have. everytime i'm around him, i just freeze and can't make a simple conversation with him nor say a simple hey. i get butterflies in my stomach and my knees weaken. i try to be myself around him ( a kinda weird, sometimes funny, TALKING a lot girl) but for some reason i can't. the only time i can talk to him is when my best friend starts the conversation. this may sound selfish but I want to start the converation but i can't.

any advice for breakin my shy shell toward guys esp. to the guy that I have been crushin on ever since 7th grade???????
 
 
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fullmusicedmajor
post Jul 12 2004, 08:55 PM
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what instrument do you play?
 

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adnilamila_fe   being TOO shy   Jul 12 2004, 08:41 PM
fullmusicedmajor   well as a person who used to do marching band...an...   Jul 12 2004, 08:55 PM
fullmusicedmajor   what instrument do you play?   Jul 12 2004, 08:55 PM
kaleidoscoped   Talk to him online first, get to know each other. ...   Jul 12 2004, 08:57 PM
adnilamila_fe   QUOTE(fullmusicedmajor @ Jul 12 2004, 8:55 PM...   Jul 12 2004, 08:58 PM
xsweetdreams12x   Ask for his screen name. That way you can get to k...   Jul 12 2004, 09:14 PM
sweetbaby109   well, i don't know if he has a s/n. cuz i aske...   Jul 12 2004, 09:23 PM
adnilamila_fe   QUOTE(sweetbaby109 @ Jul 12 2004, 9:23 PM)wel...   Jul 12 2004, 09:26 PM
head_0ver_heels   Just try to be confident...be a little outgoing..I...   Jul 12 2004, 09:38 PM
azn_r4pf4n   QUOTE(adnilamila_fe @ Jul 12 2004, 8:41 PM)i ...   Jul 12 2004, 10:00 PM
sheepy   talk to him . relax. b urself!   Jul 14 2004, 01:19 PM
babixlilac   my friend also had da same problem buh she patted ...   Jul 14 2004, 01:35 PM
islandkiss   it's normal to be shy towards the person that ...   Jul 14 2004, 01:51 PM
hybrid   "Accidentally" bump into him. That's...   Jul 14 2004, 02:37 PM
dani41790   QUOTE(lilangelgurlpnai @ Jul 14 2004, 9:37 AM...   Jul 14 2004, 03:01 PM
ThePrincessofTKD   damn...you are too shy. if you`re going to ke...   Jul 14 2004, 03:46 PM
conster   wow ur jus like my best friend.. i dunno.. shyness...   Jul 14 2004, 07:38 PM
ibabyqrlx   i guess u can get his sn.. and talk to him online....   Jul 14 2004, 09:03 PM
adnilamila_fe   hey, thanks for all da advices, u guyz. i'll t...   Jul 14 2004, 10:47 PM
ichiban   Get his sn or somethin .. or try .. talkin online ...   Jul 14 2004, 10:52 PM
MyVermilionPlague   Yah. I'm shy, too.. even with my boyfriend, ha...   Jul 15 2004, 12:12 AM


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