I am sooo mad..., ...at my freaking brother... Options

[miss_tragedy]

Ugh!!! I hate him right now!

Okay, heres the situation.

A little while ago, my sister IM's me from work, telling me she needs to ask me something, and to tell her the truth and she won't get mad. So, I tell her okay. And she asks me if I had sex with my boyfriend Randy! I told her no, because we haven't, and she says that if I did, I need to tell the truth so that she can get me on the pill. But, I have no reason to be on the pill. So, I ask her where she heard it from, and she said that somebody told her that they read it somewheres, but she wouldn't tell me who. But, I'm pretty sure it was my brother. No one else would of told her that. And he probably read it from my journal, which all it says on there is that we had "fun". "Fun" could be many things (kissing, hugging, everything else). But, god! I'm so freaking mad! Why would he even go and tell her that? Like it really matters if I did? Its my life, I could have sex with him if I wanted to. I didn't, but even if I had, why should it matter to anyone else?

Ugh, I'm rambling on now.

I haven't confronted my brother about it, but I have no need/desire to. I know he said it.

Have any of you's been in a situation like this? What did you do?

- L i Z

[miss_tragedy]

Don't get that mad. I mean your sister is just trying to look out for you. How old are you anyways?? If you're 17+ then I guess it's not a very big deal, but if you are under 17, she really should know. Especially, if you guys are close.

Even though you don't want to talk to your brother, do so anyways. Tell him anyhow. Say you don't appreciate it that he's butting into you're business.

This wouldn't make me mad, because I'd know they were looking out for me.

I hope everything works out well.

PS Get a lock on your diary.

Okay, age question, I'm 14, be 15 in September. And I know that with my sister, shes trying to look out for me. And me and my sister are really close. It doesn't bother me that she asked me about it. I'd rather her ask me instead of acting all weird or going ahead and thinking we did and be mean towards my boyfriend or something.

I know I'll end up talking to my brother. But, I just hate how he always tries to get me in trouble, or how he loves to start stuff. The whole, him telling my sister thing, he didn't do it to try to help me, like I stated before. He just wants to start trouble. Thats his goal in life. Hes 17, and he thinks I get all the attention because I'm the youngest, and he wants to make that negative attention, so that he'll be the center of attention for a while. Though, its not even like that. I think that he shouldn't go and tell my sister lies about me, when I know the truth of all his sex life, which isn't good. Heck, he had sex with some pregnant chick, that wasn't even his kid. And I didn't tell my sister or parents about that. He should be able to do the same for me.

I know I might of over reacted before. But god, I was steaming mad.

Thanks for your opinion.

- L i Z