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Hi I'm new her to Createblog.com.I surfed around the community center and found great people and advice.So here's my problem to anyone who is helpful to listen.I'm 15 and I'm in a relationship where everything I ever asked for in a relationship....personality wise.We have so much in common and we have alot of fun together.It's perfect!The problem is I'm not attracted to him facially.I don't know what to do?Hopefully, I can see pass this.I hope I dont sound stupid or something and this may not seem like a type of topic you would ask advice for but I need someone's perspective on this.Please help!
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hrmmm. well, i think that once you really like that person... their inward beauty makes them physically attractive [in time]. I mean, you might start liking the way he smiles, or the way his eyes light up when he finds something amusing, etc.
But obviously, if you don't find him that attractive, then there may be trouble up ahead (in the relationship). Maybe you can give him a nice haircut or somehting if that would make you feel better. Just take a little time to think it through. If you really care for this person and if his looks do not bother you that much, then stay with him... if u are turned off by his looks, despite his amazing personality... then perhaps you are not fully ready to settle into a serious relationship with him (it'll only hurt him to learn that he's not good looking enough for you). |
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