my friend cuts :( |
 Jul 9 2004, 05:01 PM
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alli  Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108  |
my friend...shes 14 her dad died about a yr ago and shes been depressed and now shes cutting herself...i told her its not good and she should stop but she wont listen to me...and im scared that she mite do somethin more serious to hurt herself and i dont no what to say or do! HELP!
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Jul 9 2004, 07:47 PM
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This might sound corny, but I guarantee she'll listen to it, and think about it. Ask her why she does it. Pain doesnt feel good. And maybe she wants more pain so the cause of her depression doesnt feel that bad. And ask her what she gains out of this. By doing it, shes hurting herself, and so why does she do it? How does it help her? My friend used to cut, and I said that. And she really listened, because she realized that the cuts didnt make her feel any better about her deperession, it made her feel worse about her life.
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alli my friend cuts :( Jul 9 2004, 05:01 PM
ch33sylici0us Sometimes its better to not force her to stop or p... Jul 9 2004, 05:12 PM chanleythemanley Talk to her sounds corny but you should try it. I ... Jul 9 2004, 05:27 PM babixlilac talk to her or maybe talk to a adult that can help... Jul 9 2004, 05:29 PM alli thanks everyone for ur help!! i pray she s... Jul 9 2004, 06:34 PM xsweetdreams12x I've never been in this sort of situation befo... Jul 9 2004, 07:25 PM cutielilsuga take her to see a couselor and to help her deal wi... Jul 9 2004, 08:47 PM LatinaLady get her some help she is already hurting emotional... Jul 9 2004, 09:41 PM AGlobalThreatPunx3 hey thanks ch33sylici0us that was rather some good... Jul 9 2004, 10:38 PM oOjenniOo eh.. i don't want to sound bad, but half the p... Jul 9 2004, 10:40 PM IIO__oII o no... make sure she knoes that u LOVE herr!... Jul 9 2004, 11:04 PM fresaqueen i've never had a friend that cuts..but if i we... Jul 9 2004, 11:38 PM x rOck mai sOcksz ya knoe...honestly i used to cut because on the fi... Jul 9 2004, 11:41 PM smallymollyLINDA well....if yooh have a friend that cuts herself...... Jul 9 2004, 11:49 PM someflipguy I heard horror stories about my ex in a bathroom w... Jul 9 2004, 11:57 PM x hYpErRoSeY x omg thats scary about your ex- i heard of a sitch ... Jul 10 2004, 12:02 AM lostinmydreams09 What ever you do, dont rat her out. Dont get other... Jul 10 2004, 05:09 PM islandkiss aww..
okay. this is really serious. she's re... Jul 10 2004, 09:09 PM death_kitten Okay ..... Sigh I used to be a cutter I stoped ... Jul 16 2004, 12:09 AM ichiban Yeah I think you should have a serious talk with h... Jul 16 2004, 12:25 AM DrEaMgUy2K1 my sister and one of my ex girlfriends cut, u cant... Jul 16 2004, 03:20 AM NvieDi3ai3yGrL there's not much you can do to stop it .. try ... Jul 16 2004, 03:38 AM xpiixeespriitx i had a friend the exact same way,a nd i just made... Jul 16 2004, 10:10 PM defjam_gangsta GREETINGS!!
i've frens who cut their ... Jul 17 2004, 07:47 AM sunshiNe_sweeTi_ telling her that it's not good won't mean ... Aug 9 2004, 05:14 PM DrEaMgUy2K1 my sister and my one of my ex girlfriend cuts,yea ... Aug 9 2004, 05:19 PM MyVermilionPlague QUOTE(defjam_gangsta @ Jul 17 2004, 7:47 AM)G... Aug 9 2004, 05:21 PM sheepy i dink you should tell an adult. or you could tell... Aug 9 2004, 05:59 PM XxBeExOHxX talk to heR? psh, ya right, force her to stop, yel... Aug 10 2004, 12:37 AM XxBeExOHxX talk to heR? psh, ya right, force her to stop, yel... Aug 10 2004, 12:37 AM SH0RTAYE tell her to stop in a playful-but-serious way . l... Aug 10 2004, 02:56 AM sammi rules you you should reccommend her to a psychiatrist, or re... Aug 10 2004, 03:04 AM waccoon QUOTE(VaguelyAware @ Aug 10 2004, 4:04 AM)you... Aug 10 2004, 03:05 AM
black_cloud10 *clutches skizzors* i'm glad none of you are m... Aug 10 2004, 03:11 AM |
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