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....Stalker, I really need help
gamergirl88
post Jul 4 2004, 02:55 PM
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Okay...here's the problem. My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago, in fact, he really broke up with me. I started dating someone else, and then he started calling me all the time. I told him how much it bugs me, but he says "You're just on your period" !!

He's left 20 messages on my cell in the past 4 days saying he's coming over, or he's going to kick my new boyfriend's ass. When the phone rings, I have to pick it up and wait for someone on the other end to say hello before I do to make sure it isn't him. He learned I was doing this and then calls and sort of breathes on the phone like some stupid teen flick.

I'm thinking about calling the cops or looking into a restraining order, cuz I shouldn't have to screen my calls or be afraid to check my messages.

Thanx for the advice.
 
 
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sandra
post Jul 5 2004, 09:00 PM
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yes tell him to stop it! remember to use "i" statements cuz it brings out ur power more. "i dont want u calling me"
 

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gamergirl88   ....Stalker   Jul 4 2004, 02:55 PM
dani41790   mayb u should tell him to stop or else ull call th...   Jul 4 2004, 03:07 PM
jooleeah   wow that's kinda weird and scary. i mean...it...   Jul 4 2004, 03:09 PM
JrockDollie   wow, thats realy weird and freaky. maybe you shoul...   Jul 4 2004, 05:03 PM
MyVermilionPlague   Whoa. That's really creepy. Talk to someone a...   Jul 4 2004, 05:08 PM
babygurl_xtacy   I think you should tell someone.. if you dont wana...   Jul 4 2004, 05:39 PM
ThePrincessofTKD   QUOTE(babygurl_xtacy @ Jul 4 2004, 5:39 PM)I ...   Jul 4 2004, 06:55 PM
LiNHy POO   oo stalkers... very scary!!!! yess...   Jul 4 2004, 07:58 PM
pikimoo   He doesn't sound like too serious of a stalker...   Jul 4 2004, 08:13 PM
babixlilac   QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Jul 4 2004, 8:58 PM)oo stal...   Jul 4 2004, 08:16 PM
fullmusicedmajor   okay I had a x that did the same thing, and it onl...   Jul 4 2004, 09:20 PM
tWinKliEmE   I HATE STALKERS! theres this stalker guy on my...   Jul 4 2004, 10:41 PM
conster   o god.. stalkers are the scariest ever.. i think u...   Jul 4 2004, 11:44 PM
Darkpekkle   QUOTE(fullmusicedmajor @ Jul 4 2004, 10:20 PM...   Jul 5 2004, 03:41 PM
NawtyLilAznChic   ehh hes not stalkin u, its harassment n its not ly...   Jul 5 2004, 04:03 PM
x hYpErRoSeY x   woah thats just freaky- tell him to lay off or you...   Jul 5 2004, 04:06 PM
ComradeRed   Kill him   Jul 5 2004, 07:50 PM
sandra   yes tell him to stop it! remember to use ...   Jul 5 2004, 09:00 PM
ComradeRed   Actually, you should refer to yourself in third pe...   Jul 6 2004, 03:26 PM
l_baybeexgrl_l   i say give him a piece of ur mind. as in.. go off ...   Jul 6 2004, 05:46 PM
Mireh   I wouldn't go as far as the police...Tell your...   Jul 6 2004, 06:08 PM
blowpops69   ooo i had the same problem, just ignore him and wh...   Jul 6 2004, 06:16 PM
ichiban   Tell close friends first .. or your parents .. if ...   Jul 6 2004, 10:17 PM
AntiAnodyne   QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Jul 5 2004, 7:50 PM)Kill h...   Jul 6 2004, 10:30 PM
HiddenFaerie   That's creepy. I would tell him to stop. Threa...   Jul 11 2004, 10:35 AM
mizz_mithy   i wouldn't call the cops yet. tell him to stop...   Jul 11 2004, 12:11 PM
islandkiss   whoa.. stay away from him. he sounds dangerous. if...   Jul 11 2004, 12:33 PM
xsweetdreams12x   OMG. That's scary. I suggest telling him to st...   Jul 11 2004, 01:03 PM
azn_r4pf4n   QUOTE(gamergirl88 @ Jul 4 2004, 2:55 PM)Okay....   Jul 11 2004, 01:57 PM
Hoodie91   whoa.... if that wus me, i'd kick HIS ass. lol...   Jul 11 2004, 08:38 PM
HoneyGurl   Ya should tell em stop.. Or tell ya mommie dem.. h...   Jul 11 2004, 08:41 PM
SeoulJah4God   Stay near ur new BF. If ur ex tries to hurt u ur b...   Jul 11 2004, 08:57 PM
sheepy   QUOTE(HiddenFaerie @ Jul 11 2004, 10:35 AM) T...   Jul 11 2004, 09:05 PM
sunshiNe_sweeTi_   well first of all ya shoulda told ur parents, frie...   Aug 9 2004, 12:55 PM
laur3nw   thats really scary =/ why does he care if you have...   Aug 9 2004, 02:42 PM
Streetbawler91   wow u got a real problem on ur hands but i really ...   Aug 9 2004, 03:28 PM
DrEaMgUy2K1   tell ur parents or a friend, if ur getting really ...   Aug 9 2004, 05:02 PM
helllla jankyyyy   she obsivously can't tell him to stop..bc he w...   Aug 10 2004, 07:21 PM


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