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....Stalker, I really need help
gamergirl88
post Jul 4 2004, 02:55 PM
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Okay...here's the problem. My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago, in fact, he really broke up with me. I started dating someone else, and then he started calling me all the time. I told him how much it bugs me, but he says "You're just on your period" !!

He's left 20 messages on my cell in the past 4 days saying he's coming over, or he's going to kick my new boyfriend's ass. When the phone rings, I have to pick it up and wait for someone on the other end to say hello before I do to make sure it isn't him. He learned I was doing this and then calls and sort of breathes on the phone like some stupid teen flick.

I'm thinking about calling the cops or looking into a restraining order, cuz I shouldn't have to screen my calls or be afraid to check my messages.

Thanx for the advice.
 
 
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fullmusicedmajor
post Jul 4 2004, 09:20 PM
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okay I had a x that did the same thing, and it only gets worse...stop it now. and talking doesnt really help it. Not too much can help it. Because if hes determined enough he might keep at it (like mine). Talk to your parents about it, I know it sounds stupid, but seriously they can help you get help. Get the police involved if need be.
 

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gamergirl88   ....Stalker   Jul 4 2004, 02:55 PM
dani41790   mayb u should tell him to stop or else ull call th...   Jul 4 2004, 03:07 PM
jooleeah   wow that's kinda weird and scary. i mean...it...   Jul 4 2004, 03:09 PM
JrockDollie   wow, thats realy weird and freaky. maybe you shoul...   Jul 4 2004, 05:03 PM
MyVermilionPlague   Whoa. That's really creepy. Talk to someone a...   Jul 4 2004, 05:08 PM
babygurl_xtacy   I think you should tell someone.. if you dont wana...   Jul 4 2004, 05:39 PM
ThePrincessofTKD   QUOTE(babygurl_xtacy @ Jul 4 2004, 5:39 PM)I ...   Jul 4 2004, 06:55 PM
LiNHy POO   oo stalkers... very scary!!!! yess...   Jul 4 2004, 07:58 PM
pikimoo   He doesn't sound like too serious of a stalker...   Jul 4 2004, 08:13 PM
babixlilac   QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Jul 4 2004, 8:58 PM)oo stal...   Jul 4 2004, 08:16 PM
fullmusicedmajor   okay I had a x that did the same thing, and it onl...   Jul 4 2004, 09:20 PM
tWinKliEmE   I HATE STALKERS! theres this stalker guy on my...   Jul 4 2004, 10:41 PM
conster   o god.. stalkers are the scariest ever.. i think u...   Jul 4 2004, 11:44 PM
Darkpekkle   QUOTE(fullmusicedmajor @ Jul 4 2004, 10:20 PM...   Jul 5 2004, 03:41 PM
NawtyLilAznChic   ehh hes not stalkin u, its harassment n its not ly...   Jul 5 2004, 04:03 PM
x hYpErRoSeY x   woah thats just freaky- tell him to lay off or you...   Jul 5 2004, 04:06 PM
ComradeRed   Kill him   Jul 5 2004, 07:50 PM
sandra   yes tell him to stop it! remember to use ...   Jul 5 2004, 09:00 PM
ComradeRed   Actually, you should refer to yourself in third pe...   Jul 6 2004, 03:26 PM
l_baybeexgrl_l   i say give him a piece of ur mind. as in.. go off ...   Jul 6 2004, 05:46 PM
Mireh   I wouldn't go as far as the police...Tell your...   Jul 6 2004, 06:08 PM
blowpops69   ooo i had the same problem, just ignore him and wh...   Jul 6 2004, 06:16 PM
ichiban   Tell close friends first .. or your parents .. if ...   Jul 6 2004, 10:17 PM
AntiAnodyne   QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Jul 5 2004, 7:50 PM)Kill h...   Jul 6 2004, 10:30 PM
HiddenFaerie   That's creepy. I would tell him to stop. Threa...   Jul 11 2004, 10:35 AM
mizz_mithy   i wouldn't call the cops yet. tell him to stop...   Jul 11 2004, 12:11 PM
islandkiss   whoa.. stay away from him. he sounds dangerous. if...   Jul 11 2004, 12:33 PM
xsweetdreams12x   OMG. That's scary. I suggest telling him to st...   Jul 11 2004, 01:03 PM
azn_r4pf4n   QUOTE(gamergirl88 @ Jul 4 2004, 2:55 PM)Okay....   Jul 11 2004, 01:57 PM
Hoodie91   whoa.... if that wus me, i'd kick HIS ass. lol...   Jul 11 2004, 08:38 PM
HoneyGurl   Ya should tell em stop.. Or tell ya mommie dem.. h...   Jul 11 2004, 08:41 PM
SeoulJah4God   Stay near ur new BF. If ur ex tries to hurt u ur b...   Jul 11 2004, 08:57 PM
sheepy   QUOTE(HiddenFaerie @ Jul 11 2004, 10:35 AM) T...   Jul 11 2004, 09:05 PM
sunshiNe_sweeTi_   well first of all ya shoulda told ur parents, frie...   Aug 9 2004, 12:55 PM
laur3nw   thats really scary =/ why does he care if you have...   Aug 9 2004, 02:42 PM
Streetbawler91   wow u got a real problem on ur hands but i really ...   Aug 9 2004, 03:28 PM
DrEaMgUy2K1   tell ur parents or a friend, if ur getting really ...   Aug 9 2004, 05:02 PM
helllla jankyyyy   she obsivously can't tell him to stop..bc he w...   Aug 10 2004, 07:21 PM


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