If your girlfriend hooked up w/ another girl Options

[sixfive]

Would you be mad?

I don't think I would. I was thinking about it, and even though it's technically cheating, I don't think I'd be mad. Had it been w/ another guy, I'd be pretty pissed and shit. I think that the anger from cheating from a lot of people comes from the fact that you were intimate with another male, and that other males to a lot of people are seen as direct competition in a lot of regards. You compare yourself to them and think what do they have that you don't, or you think you're so much better in this or that area, and the fact that they won her for that night pisses you off. If it's with another girl, you're still the only guy she's with and that's okay to most.

At least that's what I came up with when thinking about it.

[batman]

I think it depends on the circumstances. "Cheating" to me is more of a betrayal of trust than a "what does s/he have that i don't?" issue. I think the act of cheating itself is just as bad whether it be with a girl or a guy. The only difference is that I'd probably feel worse about my boyfriend cheating with a girl because in that case, there's jealousy added to the mix. If he cheated with a guy, I would be upset, but I wouldn't get jealous because how am I supposed to compete with a penis? There's really nothing I can do about that.

But idk. I feel like this isn't something I'd be 100% on until it happens to me.