If your girlfriend hooked up w/ another girl |
 Jul 11 2010, 11:54 PM
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Would you be mad?
I don't think I would. I was thinking about it, and even though it's technically cheating, I don't think I'd be mad. Had it been w/ another guy, I'd be pretty pissed and shit. I think that the anger from cheating from a lot of people comes from the fact that you were intimate with another male, and that other males to a lot of people are seen as direct competition in a lot of regards. You compare yourself to them and think what do they have that you don't, or you think you're so much better in this or that area, and the fact that they won her for that night pisses you off. If it's with another girl, you're still the only guy she's with and that's okay to most. At least that's what I came up with when thinking about it. |
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Jul 12 2010, 10:56 AM
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QUOTE(serotonin @ Jul 11 2010, 11:54 PM)  I think that the anger from cheating from a lot of people comes from the fact that you were intimate with another male, and that other males to a lot of people are seen as direct competition in a lot of regards. You compare yourself to them and think what do they have that you don't, or you think you're so much better in this or that area, and the fact that they won her for that night pisses you off. If it's with another girl, you're still the only guy she's with and that's okay to most. I'm not saying that I want my girlfriend running around sleeping with other girls or whatever, but if it were to happen I don't think I'd be too terribly upset. I'm not supporting cheating or sleeping around, I just thought about it and decided I wouldn't be that upset. |
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serotonin If your girlfriend hooked up w/ another girl Jul 11 2010, 11:54 PM
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