If your girlfriend hooked up w/ another girl |
If your girlfriend hooked up w/ another girl |
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Would you be mad?
I don't think I would. I was thinking about it, and even though it's technically cheating, I don't think I'd be mad. Had it been w/ another guy, I'd be pretty pissed and shit. I think that the anger from cheating from a lot of people comes from the fact that you were intimate with another male, and that other males to a lot of people are seen as direct competition in a lot of regards. You compare yourself to them and think what do they have that you don't, or you think you're so much better in this or that area, and the fact that they won her for that night pisses you off. If it's with another girl, you're still the only guy she's with and that's okay to most. At least that's what I came up with when thinking about it. |
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Yes it's a double standard. No it doesn't bother me.
I agree. Dating another person, no matter the gender, would still upset me the same way. I don't know why it would be different if I were a guy. I mean, wouldn't you be upset if she became more intimate/closer with her new girlfriend than she was with you? I said hooked up, not dated. would be mad but not too bad would probably have to show her who's boss afterwards in order to convey that i do not approve And if she suggested a three-way, would you be down? This post has been edited by tokyo-rose: Jul 12 2010, 07:36 PM
Reason for edit: Merged triple posts. - Cristy
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